What Do Men Look For In A Wife or Mate?  

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
12865 posts
4/17/2006 5:14 am

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4/21/2006 1:46 pm

What Do Men Look For In A Wife or Mate?

Plenty of men want the total package. The woman who will cook and clean, work, and be smart all in one.

I am just curious what the men of Blogland want in a mate ?

Have a great Monday!

Purry {=}


mycin62 54F

4/17/2006 5:37 am

Well, if I may be so bold as to answer for MY husband. What he looks for in a mate. ME!!!

qship52 63M

4/17/2006 6:23 am

An intelligent partner. Don't care if she can cook or clean. Got to be my friend, have some common interests and passions. Needs to be kind.

Certainly has to have the undefinable chemistry with me.

rm_herestill 56M

4/17/2006 6:45 am

I'm all about the complete package! I've never cosidered cooking and cleaning as part of that.
complete package,intelligent first!,great personality, a close second,looks third,don't get me wrong here,Ive seen truely beautiful women in all shapes n sizes! All the rest is just fluff!

timo-timo 68M

4/17/2006 7:46 am

men and women are for one another the most delicious path to experiencing real aliveness through complete love. Ya both have to be a whole, top to bottom - connected, integrated being to start with though, ya see....so that's what i want....kisses, t

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F

4/17/2006 8:23 am

like the saying goes..."A lady on the streets and a freak in the sheets."

watcheru369 51M

4/17/2006 8:45 am

A brain, nice smile, sense of humor, understanding, openminded, creative, lovable, hugable, kissable, lickable, wet, tatsey, that loves herself and me

rm_dontttstop 53M
16 posts
4/17/2006 9:58 am

why, all that and more, if you are going to dream, dream big

a chef in the kitchen, a lady in the drawing room, and a whore in the chamber, is how i first heard it, although "whore" has become an offensive term.

although a dear older female friend told me once that i cannot expect anyone to be my everything, the trick, she said, is to figure out what you are willing to go elsewhere for, of course she was single, but that was not for a lack of men wearing down the path to the door.

my mother told me that relationships are about compromise, and she is still in one

maybe that is the allure here, the vision of the perfect mate

horny4770 60M
8158 posts
4/17/2006 10:33 am

Pretty eyes and a nice smile. Will need a tremendous sense of humor and patience to put up with me! Caring, loving and loyal. Someone who likes to be touched and likes to touch. Will negotiate the rest.

49AK 55M
1823 posts
4/17/2006 12:18 pm

Intelligence is the number one thing. So many things come from that... if you have intelligence, you have lots of other attractive things, too.

SirMounts 102M

4/17/2006 12:45 pm

Well, since I now find Earthgirls more attractive to their counterparts on My home planet of Zercon... I guess it's gotta be a girl with only - dare I say it? - one head. *outing self*

airbalancer69 49M/52F

4/17/2006 1:27 pm

A good heart,sense of humor, nice smile, thick thighs, big breasteses and the ability to ravish me while i am ravishing her...I found mine..*L* and wouldn't trade her for the world. I know i sound all mushy and shit but men have feelings to..*S* I hope everyone can find what we have found (married for 22 years and together for 24)..good luck to you.

airbalancer69 49M/52F

4/17/2006 1:30 pm

all that cooking and cleaning shit is a shared chore and i do all the cooking anyway..*L*


4/17/2006 1:35 pm

not me type.. lmao..

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ArtisticTwist75 41F
2505 posts
4/17/2006 1:36 pm

Purry - I was curious to the answers. Don't them men of Blogville have the right answers? Great post.



RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
4/17/2006 2:36 pm

Already got it Purry, so I'm not looking for a damned thing. Except your NEW pics. I'm wouldn't be looking for a mom, but a partner and best friend. Appearance is important, but not critical. Intelligence, wit, style, class, all are far more important than looks. Probably the MOST important thing is the ability to put up with me. Joe

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Charlie17012 55M
52 posts
4/17/2006 3:06 pm

As far as I am concernered, the ideal woman would be my equal. Right down the middle. The bedroom is for experimenting but outside is where we run around and do the things life needs to go on and sustain us all. Sharing, Caring that kind of stuff. Money will buy you happieness but at what a cost?

peaches19555 61M

4/17/2006 3:45 pm

let me look across the room.....there is the answer to your question...I would put her in words here for you to read but even after 30 years all her mysteries are yet to be discovered.

m1903a3 59M

4/17/2006 4:10 pm

Long legs. Dark hair. Former model from California. I.Q. of 125 or higher. Similar intrests, but not a female version of me. I guess that describes Kitty, my wife.

oldude1946 70M

4/17/2006 5:46 pm

What I look for is someone to be my bestfriend.

reverend21 49M
1913 posts
4/17/2006 7:02 pm

smart, funny, indepent thinking, and oh yes, exceptional sex!

EverReady343 47M

4/17/2006 7:09 pm

I'd like a partner to be fit and attractive.No gold digger who wants everything and is a shopaholic. Polite,manners,respects others and gives good head!

spacecadet561 59M

4/17/2006 7:44 pm

I thought I'd found my match...someone who understood me, had the ambition to pursue something better in the way of education and job, good cook (I've not made anyone too sick yet...lol...), adequate housekeeper, good sex partner. Well...21 years later: she's got the degree but only a part-time volunteer job; most meals go from freezer to microwave to desk; I do at least as much of what little housekeeping gets done as she does (and with 12 cats and 3 dogs, it needs a LOT); sex is little more than a memory. It's all MY fault, of course.


seek_u_topia 50M

4/18/2006 4:32 am

In a mate I would love a woman who challenges me in many respects...intellectually, physically, and sometimes emotionally, but also a woman who is accepting and kind and has a big heart.

House work and all that doesn't mean that much to me. We can always pay someone to do that stuff, but you can't pay someone to give me that charge I want to get when I wake up with everyday.

Oh, and did I mention attractive and great in bed?!?

velvet_tongue_4u 70M

4/18/2006 1:51 pm

You look like the type that probably would fulfill my desired image . Especially if theirs some left over chocolate in your Easter basket . Immm ! Better watch out ! I might steal you !

596 posts
4/18/2006 10:16 pm


A guy had 3 girlfriends. To make up his mind about witch one to marry, he gave them 15.000 dollars to each one of them, to see what they would do with the money.

The first one took the money and went to the beauty Salon got a manicure, pedicure, she cut and dyed her hair, she went shopping and bought expensive clothes and jewelry.
When she came back to him she said "I did this for you, I want to look my best for you because I love you”

The second girl took the money and bought a sound system, a male gold Rolex, an expensive suit and the best mp3 player.
When she saw him she gave everything to him and said “I bought you all this gifts cause I love you very much”.

The third and last invested all the money in stock. She won and doubled the money, took half of it and reinvested it, the original 15 grand she returned to him and said “I have invested the money you gave me and doubled it, so here is what you gave me and the rest I reinvested for our joined future because I deeply love you”.

The man analyzed carefully each and every action and behavior of his girlfriends, taking into consideration all the pros and cons of all of them and after a lot of meditation, he decided to marry with:............................................?



Ps: what else would you expect from a guy with 3 girlfriends.

warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
4/19/2006 2:09 am

The ability to give and receive on a number of levels, empathy, caring, understanding, a willingness to forgive (because we all can be as annoying as hell once you really get to know us.....) and a sexuality that arises from the relationship. And most importantly, someone who seeks the same from me.

warm xx

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