Women Have Feelings Too......  

rm_Psyched4SEX 54F
148 posts
4/30/2006 10:13 am

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12/16/2006 6:15 pm

Women Have Feelings Too......

Let me start out by educating a few people in my network of friends. I need to be sure we're ALL on the same page. Here is the definition of the word COMMUNICATION ....the transmission or exchange of ideas, information, etc. as by speech or writing; a message; conveying or sharing one's knowledge or thoughts. The second word I feel I need to define is HONESTY ....truthfulness; sincerity; fairness; uprightness of character, conduct; integrity.
The men on AdultFriendFinder complain about women "playing" them and being deceptive. I am so tired of getting the same treatment from men on AdultFriendFinder.
I am genuine! I am honest! I am serious! Why would I waste my time and my money if I had no intention of meeting someone?
I am so frustrated with men. I am fed up with plans being broken and no effort made to contact me. How hard is it to pick up the phone and say, "I'm sorry, but I need to cancel our plans?" Common courtesy and honesty speak volumes about a person's character. I've come to the sad realization that we are NOT all adults on AdultFriendFinder.
I hope people will stop and think before they act. What pleasure comes from disappointing another person? Just remember to treat others as you would want to be treated yourself!

rm_Smile_My_Way 59M
1519 posts
5/2/2006 6:17 am

Well said, the same has happen to me and I agree people should at least e-mail the person.

rm_Psyched4SEX replies on 5/6/2006 5:33 pm:
It's just common courtesy and the adult way to handle the situation...Thanks for your comment!

Paul4348184 60M
69 posts
5/9/2006 8:03 am

You are so right. Communication is very important. If plans have changed it's only common courtesy to notify the other person.

rm_Psyched4SEX replies on 5/9/2006 7:19 pm:
Bravo my dear! You are a true gentleman and I am pleased to see your honesty reflected in your profile. Thank-You!

B3NB 51M

6/19/2006 7:18 am

Amen to that. By the way , been winking at you off and on.Real close to you, like to chat some time? Your recent blog reminded my of a recent trail of tales so to speak. Someone kept showing interest till I agreed to meet only to find out the person had stolen pics. of another person to lure in their prey. Pretty low! I really would like to further our communications. Like to ride motorcycles? Just got a new one. Contact me if you think you are ready for some weekend fun.

rm_Psyched4SEX replies on 6/19/2006 7:54 pm:
It certainly takes ALL kinds of people on this website. Many of the women CAN be just as deceptive, if not more so, than the men. I would LOVE the opportunity to continue our communications....at the very least, each of us will have made a new friend. You know how to find me!

B3NB 51M

6/26/2006 5:29 am

Thanks for the winks! If you would like to get to know me your settings won't allow me as a standard member. Will look for another that I can reply to in the future.I'll be watching. B3NB

dirtyoldgoat2 57M
1 post
11/23/2006 2:07 pm

hey psyched4sex you are right about this place so many times it has happened to me. i wish people would think about how it makes some one feel to set a date then not show or evecall and say that they changed thier mind or just that something came up. it is just rude. what ever happened treating some one like you want to be treated.

rm_toolmn452 65M

12/14/2006 1:18 pm

I agree with psched 4sex after all she's just asking for common courtesy.

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