rm_Persephone36 48F
46 posts
4/22/2006 3:09 pm

Last Read:
3/24/2007 3:20 pm


or so said a man to me on line this morning after I mentioned to him that since he didn't seem to like me perhaps we shouldn't talk anymore.

What would possess a man who thinks I am (see above) and also "feels sorry for my husband," to continue to contact me? We did no more than chat on line (I am one who gets to know people on line). Once he asked me (spontaneously) to drive to his home then and there. I declined. I am sure there are women on this site who have the freedom and confidence in their own safety to do such things, but not me.

His words have been rattling in my brain all morning.....


Jeepidiot 42M

4/22/2006 6:11 pm

Defense mechanism. No clue why but we feel the need to be insulting when we get rejected. Absolutely nothing to let yourself get worked up over.

TightBlackMini_ 53M/44F

4/28/2006 6:20 pm

Ya know guys like that are a dime a dozen.. And we get our fill of them for sure. Being a couple there are a lot of guys who think just because the wife has a bf as well as a husband that she will freely play with any of them. Not one of them bother to read the profile after looking at our pics and seeing the wifes legs.. BTW you have very sexy legs yourself we both like .. So don't take it to heart when guy get's insulting when you turn them down... We've had our share of no thank you's and still talk nicely to those people.. There has to be a chemestry or attraction involved for all..

Wyocard 66M
1 post
4/28/2006 8:35 pm

Once a annoying thought or action gets into one's brain I have often found it hard to get rid of. Many sleepless nights with such occurances (mostly work related, not so much sex or cyberland stuff...LO. You have probably forgotten the idea by now (except for the problem of the late comers like me who might keep renewing the blog...sorry)...Glad you didn't drive off (???into the sunset) on a whim...

Curious...I wonder why I just wrote this???


rm_expect_humor 44M

5/10/2006 11:08 pm

what's more important for you to know - why the man is mad at you or why you're thinking about his comments?

First issue - His reaction. Men that are dominate need their conquests to feel special in order for them to be able to hide their remedial qualities. The woman must see the man as funny, nice, etc, etc. When in reality he has just learned how a method that works for him.

Women have make up. Men have words. Same principal.

Second issue - Your reaction. How long have you been writing this blog? No one likes to generate negative reactions. Especially when you've done nothing malicious. You're just surprised that he turned on you. Don't get caught up in it. If you knew how many people actually didn't like you, you might be stunned.


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