Is anyone genuine ?  

rm_PaintedManUK 41M
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7/26/2006 11:39 pm

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12/5/2006 10:40 am

Is anyone genuine ?

My faith in people has been rocked once again. If you have read my previous posts, you will know I was one horny monster after my holiday & had been on a promise from a friend.

Well, as it turns out, this friend was nothing more than a cock tease. We chatted online about what we were going to do, she sent me pictures of what she wanted from me & even put on a private webcam show so I could see what she liked.

I thought this was all good, until I rang her to arrange the meeting. On every occasion she either ignored the call or answered, then hung up. I went round to her house & although I could see her inside, she didn't answer the door.

Is there anyone out there who genuinely wants to meet or are all the women on here just teases and fakes ?

phoenix639 49F

7/27/2006 12:35 am

No not all women are teases & fakes.

How about making friends with a woman online first then meeting with no expectations of anything except to say hello & have a drink.

Then if theres chemistry brilliant.

No woman will meet unless shes comfortable.

Those who tease online are exhibitionists & will rarely meet a man.

Ive met about 15-20 men since i joined & only been intimate with one. Tha wasnt even on our first meeting either. Ive never got physical with a man straight away.

Even if a woman does give you a cam show it doesnt mean if you meet you will be having sex...bear that in mind too.

The site promises all kinds but in reality the most than many can expect is a bunch of new friends.

phoenix639 49F

7/27/2006 12:36 am

Meant to add...stop harrassing her or you will end up arrested.

If she doesnt answer phone calls she certainly doesnt want you at her home. Foolish of her to give a stranger her address anyway.

Leave her be & move on.

If she contacts you again...dont bother with her in case games start to be played.

rm_PaintedManUK 41M

7/27/2006 9:46 am


Maybe I should clarify. The lady in question is a member here, but was a friend of mine before either of us joined the site. We were already aware of the mutual attraction between us, but this site brought it to a head.

I've been to her house many times before & we've kissed before too. She was the one who brought up sex & the one who suggested we get together.

phoenix639 49F

7/27/2006 12:39 pm

Im so sorry for getting it wrong there.

Glad you clarified & maybe you have it mentioned in another blog...i should do my homework before opening my big mouth.

The situation is a tad different i guess....but a prick tease she definately is for her actions. She is testing your friendship considerably & its unfair & cruel.

Again though my remark about backing off stands as she may accuse you of stalking.

Leave her to play games with another mug & move forward to someone who isnt into childish games.

The very best of luck but please rest assured that not all women are like this.

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11/9/2006 5:28 am

well lots of people turn out not to be genuine but if i promise something then i do it, people have to be upfront and honest with each other otherwise it doesnt work. you have to be so careful on a site like this cos i know been treat badly and it really does make you wiser. anyone who has been lucky enough to meet me will say how genuine and honest i am but i just wish everyone else was the same

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