Match me a match, find me a find, catch me a catch  

rm_Otoscope2 50M
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3/31/2006 12:56 pm

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6/5/2006 1:53 pm

Match me a match, find me a find, catch me a catch

Well, it's been about 2 weeks or so since I've joined on as a Gold member and I thought I'd take a moment to evaluate how I feel about AdultFriendFinder so far. I have written 125 letters to roughly 110 different people. As far as I can tell, 51 people have viewed my profile; all of them either people who I wrote to or people I encountered in the chat room. I've got 4 people who I'm conversing with and 1 person who met me for coffee. I am a little dissapointed frankly with these results, especially considering the amount of time I've put in so far.

I understand that meet and greets are probably the best way to get to know people on this site. I'm looking forward to the next one near Denver/Boulder and hope to see some of the people I've been chatting with.

If there are any ladies reading this I want you to take a moment and consider the process by which you select from the pile of messages you receive which ones to reply to. Be fluid about it. Don't throw out the good finds due to minor flaws. When you get tired of the jerks and fakes, make some down to earth friends and build a foundation. I'll be here when your ready. Don't wait for my letter. Pretend it's the Sadie Hawkins dance all over again and invite me. Believe me, I WILL respond, and respond honestly.

I haven't given up yet. I'll still be sending love darts at my search list (may it be ever changing). I've been considering doing something goofy and inexplicable to my profile, like uploading a movie of just me flexing my elbow or something. I want to stand out from the crowd and I'm not opposed to dressing in a clown suit to do it.

Good luck guys. Hope your doing better than me.

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