I Wonder...  

rm_OnlyU42Night 48F
20 posts
1/1/2006 10:40 pm

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8/6/2006 2:07 am

I Wonder...

I wonder if anybody on this site finds "true love?" If it would be possible to find that here... in spite of the odds. My first intuition is... "sure, why not?"

With all the dating sites out there such as Eharmony, JDate, Match.com, etc. -- that seems to be their biggest advertisement... those that find true love and/or get engaged, married, etc. I've tried those sites, only to get very few responses. But, on here, what a difference. I can't keep up with all the emails.

So, aside from all the sex, I'm curious... has anybody on here found a long term relationship, or should I just be happy and expect nothing more than being caught up in a one night love affair?

MrBelvedere12 50M

1/7/2006 3:49 am

New to this site, but it would appear to be more of a looking for sex site then a looking for an LTR site, although some people seem to be looking for that here so you might get lucky?!?

rm_mojomike 50M
45 posts
1/18/2006 6:43 am

Gee I guess I'm one of the lucky. have found people that are not only interested in the lifestyle but interested in keeping good communications and just good out night's out.

I define a good relationship with the ability of good communication and emotional sharing. so therefore I know I am one of the lucky ones of this forum.

grampagrump07 87M
14 posts
3/29/2006 11:47 pm

I do not tell lies, because I am lazy. If one lies about something to get by on anything, You have to make notes so You will remember what You should say, to keep lie going. As a Long Term Widower, and a longer time married man, I know of what I speak. It is much easier to be truthful, let the chips fall without having to keep track of where.

WoodyDoperLucri 54M

8/5/2006 4:35 pm

met a wonderfully dysfunctional woman on eharmony...although she definately HAD the potential to be a "soulmate" (if you believe in that concept); she was well, see the aformentioned phrase. i honestly believe that it CAN happen; but as a man whose best relationships started with sex and developed into something amazing later (albeit ill-fated); i can be a bit cynical. but i do believe it can happen. this "thing" where married guys are looking for a hookup, inhales (yes, sucks) seriously. some days, i'm just not that proud of my gender...


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