The Evil Queen Conquers Another  

rm_Network_Minx 47F
540 posts
10/18/2005 3:43 am

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The Evil Queen Conquers Another


I have described my Evil Queen 14 year old daughter to many of you. She has conquered my lover who just adores her. He is bringing her gifts when he arrives here today. She figures gifts from her minions is her due. The other person she has conquered? Kim, John's new wife. Kim thinks the Evil Queen is the sweetest young woman. My daughter helped occupy the young flower girls during their wedding reception. She played Ring Around The Rosie with Sara, Kim's daughter and held Faith and played with her too. I received a Thank You card from John and Kim for the gift. The Evil Queen received one from them for the time and attention Beth gave to both girls during the reception. Her school secretaries have told me that she is a very sweet young woman, a joy to be around.

Boy are all of these people fooled.

The Evil Queens' hormones have hit the last three days, plus a head cold. Every time I think she has stopped being Evil she will slide back for three days out of the month. My lover has suggested a certain vitamin for her to take to help with the PMS.

She doesn't have PMS she is just an Evil Queen.

DirtyLilSecret61 55F

10/18/2005 7:28 am

Ah, the Jekyll & Hyde syndrome. Trust me, it does wane during the latter high school years ... but then rears its ugly head once again in early college years. Gee, I'm just full of hope and help here aren't I?!

Hugs,
"Lil"


McClary 63M
881 posts
10/18/2005 6:17 pm

Naaa...you are either "lowering" yourself to her level, or mistakenly expecting her to have (hopefully) the same level of maturity that you, her mother, has.

Thus, as your daughter relies upon your treating her as an equal rather than as a developing teenager (your point of view towards her), she manipulates you rather easily, as you refer to her as an evil "Queen" and not an incorrigable "little princess". Eventually, she may even use sex with your male friends as a weapon against you.

She is not evil, she is merely merely being childish. Its may be as DirtyLilSecret61 suggests, only a stage of her mental and emotional development. Then again, she may only practice being "two-faced" until she loses something/someone particularly valuable to her, like a close girlfriend, or a boyfriend. On the other hand, she may never recover from her condition and bounce from friend to friend, and lie to lie, and cheat to cheat, until she ends up on AdultFriendFinder. Check out the Myers psychology texts.


McClary 63M
881 posts
10/18/2005 6:19 pm

Naaa...you are either "lowering" yourself to her level, or mistakenly expecting her to have (hopefully) the same level of maturity that you, her mother, has.

Thus, as your daughter relies upon your treating her as an equal rather than as a developing teenager (your point of view towards her), she manipulates you rather easily, as you refer to her as an evil "Queen" and not an incorrigible "little princess". Eventually, she may even use sex with your male friends as a weapon against you.

She is not evil, she is merely being childish. Its may be as DirtyLilSecret61 suggests, only a stage of her mental and emotional development. Then again, she may only practice being "two-faced" until she loses something/someone particularly valuable to her, like a close girlfriend, or a boyfriend. On the other hand, she may never recover from her condition and bounce from friend to friend, and lie to lie, and cheat to cheat, until she ends up on AdultFriendFinder. Check out the Myers psychology texts.

[Posted twice as my posts haven't been sticking. If both posts stick, please delete one.]


jim5131 55M
1296 posts
10/18/2005 10:27 pm

Hey Minx....I think that EvilQueen is looking for acceptance from John's new wife. She thinks the world of him and wants Kim to think the same of her. It isn't the same for you because there isn't the GuyInTheHouse situation. Yet. Until then, there will be that old familiar power struggle for the dominant woman in the house.

Look at it like a good thing. She is growing up and working to become her own person, much like the 3-year-olds realize they don't need to be toddlers anymore and stretch into little kids. She expects to become better than her Mom...isn't that what we want them to do? The downside, of course, is the condescending attitude she'll show to you.

Keep calling her on it when she does. Remind her that you did a lot on your own with two little children in tow and get her to put herself in your shoes. She should settle down. Under all that stuff, she's really sweet, like her momma...


lifeisablast333 53M

10/18/2005 11:11 pm

Minx, it is a very good thing, ya don't want to look a gift horse in the mouth...........the redneck


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
10/19/2005 2:27 am

What is my daughter doing living with you?

DustStormDiva


goddessofbitches 41M/33F

10/20/2005 4:45 pm

AH....like mother like daughter....Uh? lol...Just kidding...

HUGS~~~MANDY

Always The Bitch


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