Female Crushes  

rm_Network_Minx 47F
540 posts
9/8/2005 4:38 am

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Female Crushes

"Of course people couldn't help but think I must be a bit of a (lesbian) myself. And of course I am. Everyone is: a bit. So what?"

This is a quote from Breakfast at Tiffany's. The book by Truman Capote not the movie.

I have to agree with Holly. So what? Some of the women I have had crushes on were actors but mostly my crushes have been real life.
When I have a crush on a female it is usually because she is an interesting woman whom I would like to get to know and befriend. At one time it was quite acceptable for women to have crushes on other women. It was even discussed openly.

**One Scientific thing about Female Crushes. The feelings and bodily reactions are the same for a female crush as for an opposite attraction crush. Will she like me? Does she like me? Am I boring? I hope I get to see her today.

When I was a kid I had an older cousin who was so pretty and fun that I just adored her. I guess it was my first female crush. She was so cool and fun that I always remembered her and wanted to be like her. She had such a cool name too. I haven't seen my cousin in many years because she married an executive and has lived all over the world. She is still an interesting, fun woman. I have been in touch with her at times but it has been difficult.
I named my daughter after her.

I had a crush on a woman a few years ago. I had only traded hello's with her for several months. Finally I got up the nerve to seek her out and start talking to her. She became my best friend.
That is what usually happens with Female Crushes. The woman who has the crush wants to get to know the woman who is the object of the crush. She wants to make the object a friend. I am glad I have had crushes on women. It has led to many close relationships with other women.

There are a few women bloggers on this site that I would like get to know personally. Do I have crushes on them? Yes. I would like to get to know them as friends. Are they sexy? Yes. Are they funny? Yes. Are they intelligent? Yes.

So I must be a bit of a lesbian myself. So What?

rm_CookieLips2 61M

9/8/2005 8:11 am

Yep, Call me a Lesbian too! There is nothing like going down on a woman and waking up in the morning looking like a glazed doughnut!

CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
9/8/2005 3:49 pm

Network_Minx May i be your lesbian ? wait that won't work, yet as your comments says....so what !


DirtyLilSecret61 55F

9/8/2005 7:01 pm

(hugs Minx) I understand completely what you're writing here.

GREAT post.


rm_Network_Minx 47F
542 posts
9/8/2005 9:50 pm

I already have a "Female Crush" on you. Oh wait I think it is the regular crush. Is that ok? So What?

rm_Network_Minx 47F
542 posts
9/8/2005 9:51 pm


goddessofbitches 41M/33F

9/9/2005 9:13 am

Hm....So I take the time to stop by and see what you have been up to and I find you debating on whether or not you are lesbian....????

I often have that debate...but it is those nights that I lay with my husband and discover that I am just into both sexes. I don't want to say I am bi sexual. I look at myself as a lover. Plain and simple. I am a lover...lover of both sexes...

I think that as personalities go.....I think your awesome...so...lets go hook up and spend an afternoon together at bloggville mall or something. lol


Always The Bitch

SweetDarlinAngel 39F
2996 posts
9/9/2005 3:32 pm

Whether it constitues the little bit of lesbian in you or not, I think that "Female Crushes" are what makes women so unique and beautiful to each other. I can look at woman and see her curves and her sexuality and enjoy watching her, at the same time I can crave the closeness that comes from being able to share a friendship with her that can only come between two women. But then again, I love women. Men are great too, but that is the curse of loving to be with both I guess. . .


lifeisablast333 54M

9/9/2005 10:05 pm

thats a fact

rm_Network_Minx 47F
542 posts
9/10/2005 3:28 am

It's a date.

I have to agree that Female Crushes is what makes women unique from men. I can look at some of the pictures on AdultFriendFinder and see that they are beautiful and sexy women.


MisterPriapus 57M
6980 posts
9/10/2005 10:12 am

(As a lesbian hopelessly trapped in the sweaty psyche of a hetero man, I can so understand what you're talking about! Oh shit! Here he comes! Gotta go...)

How'd I get here? Ooo, hi there, Minx! Are you coming on to me, by any chance..?


Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up.

And while I got my Broad-Brimmed Pimping Hat on, could I cajole all of y'all to Comment on, Alone In A Cloud? It's probably the best thing that I've written!



rm_Network_Minx 47F
542 posts
9/10/2005 3:46 pm

Is that the Greek/Roman God writing to me? It does seem that I am moving up in the world if a God is commenting on my blog. Thank you for taking the time from you busy schedule of granting wealth and good fortune in Rome. Maybe I will have wealth and good fortune from your visit.

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