Your a Nice Guy, but Not My Type. Do Nice Guys Ever Get Laid???  

rm_MustangD6644 51M
1052 posts
12/25/2005 11:33 pm

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Your a Nice Guy, but Not My Type. Do Nice Guys Ever Get Laid???

The number of times I have been told that comment by girls and ladies I have been dating over the years, is really beginning to annoy me. On the one hand you have ladies saying "Treat me with respect" and then when you do they say that "Your a Nice Guy, but Not My Type" and then proceed with unladylike haste to be attracted to and Nailed by Wolves, Sharks, Shysters and Barracudas. Then those same ladies will often treat me like I'm am one of those seedy dubious types, until I win their trust and repair their hearts, whereupon they run off again with one of those seedy dubious types. I could cite examples but we are all grown up even if we are not all mature adults.

Now ask yourselves ladies; If you trained a dog in that way, how would the dog respond? How would you respond to that sort of treatment?

Any dog worth its dinner would decide that someone who behaved like that was not a worthy master, and run away to a better home.

Yes, I am a Nice Guy and a Gentleman, but only because that is the way I have been educated and it is part of my character which I will not allow the dubious types of the world to destroy.

But don't think for a moment that you have me pegged as a softy because you would be very wrong and I would not like to show you up as a fool.

Do you dare to visit the inner Mustang?

Stay tuned. The Sex Factor of this blog is going to go HOT.


YouNoYouWantTo_f 37F
21 posts
12/26/2005 4:46 am

the reason why i said you are not my type was only because of the age gap, which intimidates me..I tried having fun with men your age but it just didn't work for me. I am sorry. I just thought you deserved the truth. I posted a reply to your comment you put to my Mind Games earlier on today. Thanks.


RailBaron2 54M

12/26/2005 7:42 am

My Dear Friend Mustang I cannot answer as I am in the same boat as you are.I have personally seen women that would not give me the time of day get involved with a married man, get pregnant & then dumped,
One that I dated after dumping me because I didn't make enough money wound up married to a rich guy that beat her,took her kids in the divorce,she wound up getting married & divorced 3 times then went lesbian before she died at age 38.On this very day several years ago ,the woman I married asked me to leave because " I don't love you, I don't hate you, your just here" I had given that woman my best
She mistook patience & kindness & gentleness for "wimpyness" as she put it.- She learned the hard way that I am a man & not a doormat or a slave, & She was actually shocked when I divorced her- she thought that I would come grovelling on my knees & do what she wanted & wait several years for her so she could play her games.

Fairy_Gothmother 41F

12/26/2005 8:47 am

Any woman with a certain amount of relationship experience under her belt knows the nice guys are the ones worth keeping. Try to not be too eager to console your friends, and put the moves on them while they are recovering, not afterward.

rm_corezon 53F
3376 posts
12/26/2005 9:18 am

It isn't the fact that the guy is a "nice guy"; tastes differ and some men I know I'm just not physically attracted to...or if the mental connection isn't taking place either thru any of our conversations...if we really don't seem to have much in common other than the fact that we both are looking for someone of the opposite sex

there's no point in me leading him on...

rm_MustangD6644 51M
1031 posts
12/26/2005 11:10 pm

YouNo I understand about the age gap concern, but with "age" there are several areas to consider. There is strict chronological age which is what we consider most frequently. There is also biological age which is influenced by genetics, eating habits and lifestyle choices. Finally there is maturity age which is influenced by your personality, life experiences and occupation.
I would say that if you thought about your circle of people you could identify those who are very young for their age and those who are very old or "mature" for their age.
I site also as an example the two photos you have used in your blog. The black and white photo makes you look very mature and more early 30"s, whereas the colour photo makes you look barely 20 if your lucky. Can you hear the grinding of teeth by other jealous readers?
Personally I was taken for under 30 until I was @ 35, so you could argue that biologically my age is more like 35, and mentally well thats just anybody's guess between 4 and 44.
Another influence is the people who you associate with. I share a house with two guys in their 20's, and I would put the house age at arround 30.
I must admit that it is flattering when the other two ask me for advice, not that I know all the answers, but sometimes I know where they might be found.


PS Please dont take the post as a dig at you personally its just that it sort of touched a nerve, and so I thought it might make a good post.

rm_MustangD6644 51M
1031 posts
12/27/2005 2:21 pm

Jim where did you photo go, please dont tell me that the Gremlins have got to you as well.
As far as the behaviour of the women you cited as examples and they were good examples in that we all seem to know people who have behaved like that, well all I can say is that they got what they deserved for overlooking such a wonderful gentleman as your self.

Maybe if they had seen you dressed as the Rail Baron a bit more then they would have formed a different opinion as I know just how differently I am viewed when I wear a suit instead of tradie clothes.

I am glad you managed to surprise your ex-wife like that and I reckon if she was asked for an honest opinion now, she would probably regret treating you badly. However that is all in the past and there is no going back.

Rest assured Gentleman Jim that there is the right Lady Friend out there for you, we just have to help you two to get together.


RailBaron2 54M

12/27/2005 3:41 pm

Mustang- I posted a New pic taken 2 days ago it was not the Blog Gremlins it was The Nit wits that rejected the photo- its me without my hat & smoking my pipe - As to my dress belive it or not I dressed in suits for many years 1 day a week,My casuals are Jeans & a T shirt.
I hope you have a Happy & prosperous New Year My friend - There is one out there for each of us, it is just a matter of FINDING them lol.

rm_MustangD6644 51M
1031 posts
12/27/2005 7:09 pm

Again with the rejected photos Jim. This is getting silly and is like what happened when I updated my profile just before Christmas. It kept on getting rejected and the cause was referring to kids and children which is fair enough I guess except that the reference had been approved when I lodged my profile the first time . AAARRRRGGGGGHHH would best describe my feelings in a polite manner.

I will also take the opportunity to wish you a prosperous happy and safe New Year Jim.

Keep Looking


Fairy_Gothmother 41F

12/28/2005 6:57 pm

PLease drop by my or TTigerAtty's blog and read [post 184409]

Fox4aKnight1 43F

12/29/2005 3:03 am

hugs mustang ........sorry I am a bit tired hun ......and I hear ya ..........the nice gals have the same problem a degree I quit being the "nice" and proper girl .....nice and proper was where women didn't have sex with anyone .........till they got together with aguy for life mostl. I often find it odd....the double standereds ......I mean I talked to a guy friend on here just to see what he thought .....and he said " I will never task a girl fromhere to be my girlfriend/wife, cause they have been (browsing) too much" but that don't make sense .......Not sure why that is the case. But as to nice guys .....that is all I would daate ....the guys that were bad boys were attractive .......but had too many rules for me no male friends ect. they were too insecure for me. I haven't dated on this site seriously ( IE for a bf) or off this site for many years .............I think I have become too cynical .......who knows?


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