Dude get the Message, NO Means FKN NO  

rm_MustangD6644 51M
1052 posts
8/21/2006 4:30 pm

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8/23/2006 5:25 am

Dude get the Message, NO Means FKN NO

A female friend of mine went to a party on Saturday night and was involved in an "incident" that is now going to involve the police.

She was in a spa wearing shorts and a top and a this dude who she and her friends all knew and who had invited himself to the party, jumped in next to her. Now this girl is a nice sort, friendly, chatty, intelligent and a good conversationalist, but she is no slut and no bed hopper. She had absolutely no interest in the dude apart from as a chat room buddy.

Dude had other ideas possibly assisted by alcohol, that he was going to get into her pants. Before she knew it he was rubbing his dick along her leg and grabbing the crotch of her shorts underwater. She protested and tried to get up but he had a hold of her shorts and pulled her back down.

When she described this action to me, I commented that it seemed like dude had done that move before as he was prepared for her response. She replied that another male friend of hers had made the exact same comment about it being a practiced move.

It would seem that dude has something of a track record in this area, judging by his "moves" and also the speed with which he sent an appollogetic email to her.

What makes this all the worse is that there were other people in the spa who made no effort to investigate or intervene when these events were occuring. This reflects poorly on those people, I mean how hard is it to simply say " Im sorry is there a problem here at all?

Dudes and dudettes who behave like this are invariably cowardly bullies and need to be confronted, and brought to heel. But nobody likes to make a "scene", well if this goes to court, it will be a "scene", that will be a matter of public record for all to see and comment upon. People dont like to become "involved", but sometimes its better to be "involved" early to avoid major headaches later, like ending up in court. Some people get off on being involved in the "drama" of "going to court" but they are just like dumb moths drawn to a flame.

Here in Australia we currently have a federally funded program Australia says No to violence against women, running on TV and in the print media, but it would seem that some "dudes" just arent getting the message.


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
8/21/2006 4:47 pm

Some people are such asses and should have their dicks cut off!

Purry {=}


DizzyKittie81 35F

8/21/2006 4:55 pm

you are right. guys like him need to be stoped and someone at that party should have said something to him.


PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
8/21/2006 7:25 pm

I'd have beat the crap out of him... "scene" indeed... he deserves to go to jail.

May I circumcise him to the hilt if he walks free? I promise I'll be efficient about it... cauterize the wound with lemon and salt, all that stuff.

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

pussinboots571 105F

8/21/2006 8:30 pm

I'm with PrincessKarma on this one. Make the bastard pay. NO means NO......how hard is that to comprehend.


imsohorny19822 34F
1728 posts
8/21/2006 9:16 pm

Excuse my mouth, but what a fucking cunt, i would have sent the asshole flying.

Nobody, and i mean nobody treats a woman or anyone like that. I am one of those few people that will always make sure someone is alright if the situation looks strained or unconfortable and im more than happy to make a scene to make sure everyone else knows whats going on, and there are many people who would vouch for that on this site!!!

I seriously hope that your friend has taken action against this asshole and that she follows it through.

Great post Mustang. Its good to draw attention to these kind of matters and make people realise that these things actually happen.

People, open your eyes, if something doesn't look quite right, most of the time, its because its not. Make the effort to make sure that someone if ok if you think they are in trouble.


rm_MustangD6644 51M
1031 posts
8/22/2006 8:30 pm

Mustang at this point hurriedly and somewhat nervously places a cricketer's box down the front of his pants and straps his nailbag on and backs up against the wall while visually checking the room for sharp instruments, just in case the ladies get a man hating frenzy going.

Seriously Now;

Thanks for your comments ladies, and would you believe that people are actually defending the dude in the chat room saying things like "this matter shouldnt be discuss while xyz is not here to defend himself". Now there is some merit in this comment, but in some ways I kind of get the feeling that its a bit like the three wise monkey's cartoon, hear, speak and see no evil.

And we like to think of ourselves as the superior species on this planet, ppfffttt, yeah right.


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