Bendigo Girl, Her Virginity and The Knuckledragger  

rm_MustangD6644 51M
1052 posts
2/27/2006 3:12 pm

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Bendigo Girl, Her Virginity and The Knuckledragger

There is a young lady here in Victoria who recently joined AdultFriendFinder and became a member of Blogland, with the purpose of loosing her Virginity.
Myself and several other blogers where quick to warn her of the perils of those Seedy Dubious Types otherwise known as Knuckledraggers.
As to be expected she was swamped with lots of "Let me Fuck You Babe, I'll Make You Moan" type of messages, which she quickly rejected.
Unfortunately one Knuckledragger utilized the "Wolf in Sheep's Clothing" method and slipped under her radar.
He was successful, by virtue of his having kept up the disguise until the deed was done and then he introduced his mates, with the expectation of a Gang Bang.
Bendigo Girl was understandably terrified and rapidly fled.
She was at first so disgusted that she was going to disappear for good basically, but has since decided to stay but only in an invisible manner.
Her survival time amounted to @ 18 days and for that I partly blame myself for not having blogged some suggested means of defeating the Knuckledraggers.
I realize that it was her decision to make, but this result was about the third worst outcome that myself and others were trying to help her avoid.

My regret is that I had not done everything that I felt I could do to help prevent this outcome, so while I am relieved that she is safe and well although hurt emotionally, I am kicking myself for not doing that little bit more to advise her.

Picture if you will the expression Jerry Seinfeld makes when he thinks of Newman, his neighbour and postie, except I will be saying "Knuckledraggers", while clenching my fist and teeth.


Death to Knuckledraggers


Love is a Battlefield

PS Please visit Bendigo Girl's Blog and read about it for yourself and I think she could do with a few comments of support from Nice Bloggers who frequent this site and my blog.

imsohorny19822 34F
1728 posts
2/27/2006 4:04 pm

Hey Mustang,

Regardless of whether or not we had done more to help her sort throught the swarms of men at her feet, we still have not control over things like this. You need to stop saying what if i..... there was nothing you could have done to prevent this from happening to any member on the site.

It was Kat's decision to go ahead and meet this person, which i am grateful she met him in public to start with!! She did not have an arm twisted behind her back forcing her to do anything. It was all consentual and willing. Unfortunately, we dont have the ability to see into the future and to know what is around every corner and they are the things that jump out and change the path that is taken.

Kat managed to get herself out of the situation without too much trouble, but as you have said, it has frightened her and made her withdraw a bit. I have had the opportunity to chat with her several times and she is a lovely girl, whom i hope we will have the opportunity to meet, however, i think we need to not make such a fuss over this in the future, just so she can get her thoughts together and get over what has happened and come back out of her shell a bit.

Dont keep beating yourself up about it Mustang, it was something that none of us had any control over. Its nice to see that someone somewhere gives a shit though. You are like the AdultFriendFinder big brother watching over us all!!!

Tala4u2 53M  
2957 posts
2/27/2006 4:58 pm

Yes I read her blog b4. It is no place for the inexperienced in some ways without some guidance. Lifes like that.

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,

rm_MustangD6644 51M
1031 posts
2/28/2006 2:29 pm

Thanks guys for your comments. I guess I am just a little "touchy" on the subject as I now know of at least 3 Victorian women who have joined since the start of the year and who have fled following run-ins with Knuckledraggers. In addition I was involved with the fight to get Princess Karma re-instated following her banning by AdultFriendFinder after she started a knuckledragger shit list. One particular bastard even visited my blog and left some insulting posts and then returned a couple of days later to delete the worst of them. He was manipulating the system, and viewed every woman as being here for his pleasure only, so long as they were slim and compliant. I know crazy and this guy was really nuts.


TTigerAtty 62M

3/4/2006 1:47 pm

I'm not sure I know the AdultFriendFinder member to whom you refer, but I wish her well. And all the best to you as well!

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