What I learned this year  

rm_MsLL22 34F
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12/31/2005 6:28 am

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What I learned this year


It has probably been the most difficult year of my life. But I survived it and I'm hopeful about the future. These are the main things that happen to me this year.

The bad things

My grandmother died
I got a formal verbal warning at work for something that be couldn't helped
I got my heartbroken
I got Herpes
My mother died

The good things

I made some new friends hopefully some will be around for a long time.

I found out a lot of people cared about me.

I found a strength I never knew I had.

I had some great sex and learned about myself as a sexual being. I started out a confused young woman but now I know what I want.

I started to exercise

I calmed down as a person and learned to take it easy. Don't sweat the small stuff.

I learned to pick my battles carefully.

I finally started working for the organisation that I have always wanted to work for.

But what did I learn

People tell lies or they find it hard to be honest with you in case they hurt your feelings. I always knew this but this year I heard quite a few lies.

I have learned that you must follow your heart and live with the consequences.

I must respect myself if I don't no one else will.

Anything built on sex isn't built to last you need more than sex to hold a man.

Although saying that I don't believe marriage or babies can keep a man if he truly wants to go.

I have come out this year a stronger and wiser person. I am looking forward to the future.

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