This one is not about sex...yeah right.  

rm_MrsD1 39F
5 posts
8/11/2005 6:50 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

This one is not about sex...yeah right.


My husband and I were with one of his friends the other night. The first time we had a threesome with my husband, another male, and me. I was into it and so was my husband but his friend could not keep it up. And he is at the point I would think that if he saw any chic naked he would get off on that. so what does everyone think was just not stimulated by me or was it something else?

manupforall 58M

8/11/2005 7:56 pm

Lots of performance anxiety in this situation.
Many men are imhibited by another man being there even if there is no contact.

Was he drinking? Too much (or too little) alcohol can cause trouble.

Best is to get a Bi man because he will be turned on whatever way he looks.


AughtMusedSpill 48M

8/11/2005 8:28 pm

My guess it was probably tough to perform with an audience...especially with him knowing your husband. Might have been a little strange for him; just a guess


no_gods_33 45M
2 posts
8/11/2005 8:41 pm

Well, to tell you the truth, guys that can bone in the same room a single chick have to be a little bi I would think. There are some other reasons why he might not have been too.

-was he comfortable or in some awkward position.
-Is his size much smaller than your husbands? (envy)
-Was it his first time? (Stagefright)
-Is he in a serious relationship? (Guilt, Second thoughts)
-If the position you were in got him a little too close to your husband "for comfort", that might cause discomfort for sure.

Consider that whatever the problem was, he must have really wanted to be there. Don't expect him to complain much. Unfortunately, the chance for you to get him to want to do it again in the wake of an unfortunate experience isn't very good. If you are interested in making that work, maybe invite him over one day when your husband isn't there. Work him for 15 minutes or so, then ask him if your husband can join. Of course, we know your husbands in the next room waiting for you to knock on the wall or something.


d0lphint0m 61M
24 posts
8/27/2005 7:32 pm

That happened to me when I was with another man's wife. But when I went down on her while she fellated him, I got as hard as a rock. Everyone has their own "thing" that gets them going in an anxiety situation such as that, and that is mine. I know that is my "life saver". All I have to do is get down there and chow down for awhile and my guy always rises to the occassion.


INOCENT1958 58M
3 posts
2/5/2006 9:48 am

MABY YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND SHOULD TRY SOMEONE WITHOUT MUCH EXPERIENCE, AND TEACH HIM WHAT YOU BOTH WANT. IT SOUNDS LIKE IT COULD BE FUN. INNOCENT1958


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