Girls are not made up of sugar, spice, and everthing nice  

rm_MissNoelle 35F
17 posts
5/26/2005 9:08 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Girls are not made up of sugar, spice, and everthing nice

so for the first time in my life I'm getting stood up by girls, they aren't just telling me no or cancelling on me, I'm just plain being stood up. I don't get it, I'm a nice person, fun to be around, my friends just adore me, why can't anyone be sexually attracted to me? (I know there's some guys out there who'd jump on that one, but I'm talking about girls of course)

I guess I gotta play hard to get, cuz if I'm accomodating there must be something wrong with me, apparently.
I just wish girls wouldn't play so many games, just be "real" (i know that's completely cheesy, but whatever, i dont' care at this point).

here is my one request for any girls out there reading this (regardless of sexual orientation or relationship status) - BE HONEST ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS, if ur not into me, tell me, it's ok, i'm not into everyone either. but at least communicate that, don't build up all this bs (eg. u said u like me, u want to get together, etc) and then ignore a person. it's honestly just rude, and in some cases mean.

Now i can understand times where life gets in the way and people can forget, etc, but it's still rude. And at least apologize at some point, don't blow it off as that completely reinforces the idea that the person u blew off doesn't really matter to u.

p.s. sorry if i come off a little strong, but i'm also going thru withdrawls from my back pain meds so I'm a little more cranky than normal... which is why i'm vocal for once...

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
5/26/2005 10:19 pm

lol Miss Noelle your only just figuring this out?

this is the reason you wont often see me mention activities with girls in my blog it doesn't happen often, what you describe above is the standard around here!


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