"Self Pleasure"  

rm_MissBee9971 45F
40 posts
1/7/2006 7:01 am

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5/10/2006 7:03 pm

"Self Pleasure"


How many of us choose this "safe route" when we aren't attached? For me, it's a lot easier to deal with the fantasy of having someone, than the reality....

Meeting someone for the first time and wondering if they like you, find you attractive, etc. is very nerve wracking. Sometimes the safer route is to keep yourself at a distance.

I sense it's going to be difficult for me to jump back in the pool; especially after having cpr! I was cheated on; and never want to be the cause of cheating; or be put in that position again. Trust me, this is not to "toot my own horn"; but I stayed with the same man for 14 years; and it's very daunting thinking about someone else being in my bed. I have found an attraction with a few people on AdultFriendFinder, but not sure if I can get up the courage to act on it; so the "self pleasure" route seems to be the safer one....

dropodew 55M
6 posts
4/15/2006 9:06 pm

Nothing wrong with "self pleasure" route....especially here at AdultFriendFinder, many others are willing to lend a helping hand or provide visual stimulation (mmmm the web-cam) to get you through the NIGHT!


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