rm_Miagurl2 36F
34 posts
11/29/2005 6:39 am

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How do you differentiate from a dirty look and an appreciative look?

Yesterday, while I was strolling through the mall, I noticed this one guy looking at me from head to toe. Hmm...it would have been nice if he was appreciating what he was looking at ( I was wearing a knee length skirt, baby tees and flip flops), but he had that certain glimmer in his eye like the ones you see in japanese cartoons when the evil guy gets an evil idea.

Im not one of those girls who wear something skimpy and get angry when i draw stares. However, id rather have an appreciative stare rather than a leer.

Well, i bet all guys get to leer at some girl at least once a day. Just dont make it too obvious. If I catch you looking maybe at my legs, my breasts, or under my skirt (if you're below me in the escalator and yes guys I know you do look up the skirt of the girl sometimes), it would be nice to see you make a friendly smile rather than pretending not to have been noticed. Who knows what might happen.

wildcatryan 36M
16 posts
12/1/2005 8:45 am

hey mia..i think that head to toe look was a dirty one! you look straight when you want to compliment on something right..maybe it was a semi-naughty look!! he was just playing you already in his head! damn you must be hot that day..just kidding! take care

rm_oyabun7 43M
2 posts
12/3/2005 11:20 am

refereshing to see a girl react positively when she's admired...good for you..sometimes i wonder why they bother to dress that way if they wont expect more than a few glance thrown their way...for my i'd love for my woman to look as sexy as she could be..i actually apreciate the fact that other guys look...reminds me how lucky i am to have her. wish that your attitude were more contagious..like the bird flu...joke

dashingdan2000 46M
27 posts
12/12/2005 5:21 am

when i appreciate a woman's beauty, i make it as discreet as possible and i feel shy when she finds out im giving her the extra glance. i give out a shy smile. but i really hate it when some women wear sexy clothes like micro mini skirt, plunging blouses or short tops where you can see their lower back when they stoop. then when a guy looks at them, they would try to pull their skirts down, cover their bossom or pull down the back side of their tops. why wear such clothing if you dont want to be looked at? i wish more women have your frame of mind. i hope to bump into you on one of those mall escalators one of these days. hehehe!

JuanJason7 42M
3 posts
1/22/2006 1:46 am

I agree with all the guys above, takes some maturity to have to appreciate guys looking at you. Hey do you care if I appreciate you in person let's get together sometime if you're interested and free

'There's no being, only becoming' - Friedrich Nietzsche

NigerDawnsGross 44M
66 posts
4/14/2006 7:48 am

personally ive never done that... well medyo mas discreet lang siguro ako.. i guess different people have their own different strokes... so what does ur boyfriend say bout that anyway?

i can sleep when im dead

la_hornitos 45M
4 posts
5/24/2006 5:56 pm

well they say it all . . . . need to shut up and hope to have a chance to hang around with you....


rm_darn_ett 32M
10 posts
6/9/2006 3:33 am

ei mia wats up

rm_ritzer2k5 40M
1 post
7/1/2006 12:45 am

yup you got that right! well next time you go out kindly txt me where "Mall" are u so i can position my self at the escalator and look up your skirt. i'll gladly give u a nice smile... -just txt me ok-0 syam wan walo apat syam syam apat tatlo dalawa wan. wait 4 any text.

rm_LJT_31 43M
15 posts
9/29/2006 10:35 pm

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rm_LJT_31 43M
15 posts
10/20/2006 6:48 pm

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rm_junbogz 43M
22 posts
11/25/2006 11:00 am

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rm_jaedz16 34M
1 post
4/21/2007 3:21 pm

in my own opinion no matter how sexy the girl is she must be treated with respect... miagurl i hope to be your friend...you can email me at and text me at zero,nine,zero,five,three,one,three,three,eight,eight . if you want to have a job just text me.four.... hopin to be your friend.

rm_jackelgin 30M
9 posts
5/18/2007 3:59 am

I am reminded of a line I once heard from Seinfeld. "Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun. You get a sense of it then you look away!"

I really think its alright to look at a pretty girl, especially if said girl is wearing revealing stuff like miniskirts or plunging necklines. In that case, the girl is really asking to be looked.

I also like to look at girls who aren't wearing anything slutty but are very beautiful in their own right. I like to appreciate beauty when I see it.

However, I do agree with mia when she said that appreciative looks are alright so long the guys don't leer. Looking at girls really should be done discretely.

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