Why men are from mars and women are from Venus  

rm_Miagurl2 36F
34 posts
11/16/2005 7:45 am

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Why men are from mars and women are from Venus


Last weekend, my boyfriend and I went out of town, just by ourselves. It was meant to be a romantic getaway. Somewhere cold where we could keep each other warm. Im sure you are getting the idea. So we check-in this cheap but decent hotel (La Brea Inn, its like a motel with the thin towels and rubber slippers but way cheaper! Anyway, they didnt have the porno channels so it doesnt really count as a motel)in Baguio City at around 4am (it was a 6 hour ride from Manila). Both of us were really tired from trip, what with all the bouncing around in the bus and all, so sex was the farthest thing from my mind. Well, my mind at least. For him, well, i think it was the first thing he thought of when we checked in. So we just got into the room when he starts kissing me, and things turn a bit warmer, and warmer, until im squirming in my pants. He was feeling the same (boy could I feel it!). So being the good girlfriend that I am, I undid his fly, kneeled before him, took him out, and started kissing and licking his cock. I have to admit Im good at sucking cock. I've been complemented by my bf quite a few times on this, and i really knew he liked what i was doing (he was grinding against me so im sure he liked it). Anyway, while i was sucking him, he was talking to me, urging me on, holding my head, and doing a bit of cursing, and he cums. Normally, I just let him cum on me (lips, breasts, neck, whathaveyou), but this time, I was so turned on I let him cum in my mouth, or rather my outstretched tongue, and swallowed it all.

So while he was on the bed recovering and I was beside him fondling him, he asks me where I learned to suck like that and if I did the same thing to all my exs. Being still horny, and with his fingers doing things to me, I answered honestly that yes I did, and that I learned well from my previous bfs (i have 6 exs). So he starts saying "did they do this to you", and he starts fingering me faster. I thought he liked it so I said "yes". Then he starts sucking my breasts hard, asking the same thing. Honestly, I was really getting horny by his teasing, so I say "Yes" again. Then he opens my legs and pushes himself inside me, and asks the same thing. He was kinda rough, pushing it hard and deep (the way I like it), and being so wet and excited I say "Yes" again, and again until I cum. After that, he was a bit cold. He wouldnt return my kisses and hugs, and he turns his back to me to face the other side of the bed. Then I start thinking, what did I do to make him feel this way, and I realize it must have been the questions he asked while we were doing it. He later admits that he thought the things we did in bed (or out of it) was exclusive to us alone. I had to say sorry since I didnt want to hurt his feelings, but that really kind of annoyed me deep inside. I mean, he knows I had a few boyfriends, and he knew i wasnt a virgin when we first did it, so what was the big fuss all about? The past is the past. Im his girlfriend right not so what's the big deal right? I guess all guys are the same. If they can get into a girl's pants that's ok, but if they realize that someone else got into their girl's pants ahead of them, then its not ok.

rm_baldlovin 35M

11/16/2005 9:20 am

hey... I object that .

Just because the guy you have right now is a bit strange in the way he thinks (I mean, come on... 6 boyfriends you had already, something HAS to have happened... specially when you're no virgin anymore )
doesn't mean they all are.

But... what could help him... is telling him in which he IS different from the others. Like what you DID you with him and not with the others. (this does not have to be something like sexual handlings... emotional or activitie new-stuff is good enough for it )

And might that not be the matter... a well, try something new for him, something you always wanted to try but never got around to... let him feel special


rm_Miagurl2 36F
3 posts
11/16/2005 9:45 am

something new? any suggestions?


passionateforit 46M

11/16/2005 10:22 am

I agree with badlovin. Your bf compared himself with others, so it was his own fault, there of course could be no other result than frustration. I mean, anyway, he didn愒 talk about some rival, even more not about someone that he was cheated on with! So HE brought them in, not YOU!
Obvisiously he had the vision of them having sex with you while he was sleeping with you himself. Or in other words it seemed to him that it didn愒 mean much of a difference to you WHO of those seven men did it. He felt obsolete and useless, got the feeling that the others did the same as good as he did anyway, because you said that they did. He probably waited for something like "No, they didn愒, not THAT good." It definitely wasn愒 a turn on for him like it was for you, not at all. The thought of what a (theoretical) rival did or does to a woman never is a turn on for most men (and I cannot follow your being turned on by that conversation neither myself lol ) - it would not have been the other way round either, probably, btw - , it is a challenge. Domination and all that stuff. Male thingy. He could have avoided it by just friggin not thinking of the whole thing. I mean, what sense does it make? It cannot be changed in the first place. Secondly, HE is your bf NOW. Boys who read this: never do this, neither at home nor somewhere else lol! That is as long as you are not the "proved" best and superior one for your girl ALREADY .
BUT it was not YOUR fault, HE started the topic. HE set himself out to the risk.
Any advice? Check out badlovin愀 comment!


rm_baldlovin 35M

11/16/2005 3:08 pm

Well... lets see

1. camasutra (I'll bet you haven't tried them all yet )
2. Erotic massage (probably done already?)
3. Anal (only by choice... what I've heard, it can hurt)
4. Striptease (probably you have done that already... but has he? )
5. A third person (hey, only suggestions.. you know best what to do and what not to)
6. Cheat on him (would that be a first?... though probably wouldn't let him feel much better :s)
7. Costume part (dress like santa's little helper and let him tell you what he wants for christmas... is he asking naughty things?)
8. Bondage/ SM... hey, new stuff, isn't it
9. Fuck him for once (put on that dildo in front of you, get him in the position... and WHAP there you have your new experience )
10. Try it at places you have never done it before.

A few thoughts that come to mind. Yet, for more suggestions, ask around here, I believe there are quite a few people with more experience and more "new things" in their knowledge to do then me, but probably this gives you a little more insight.


ajax28003 36M
70 posts
11/16/2005 10:41 pm

haha virgin
cant fine one in taiwan these days
aj


hotm12001AtYaH00 40M
15 posts
11/18/2005 6:59 am

a little lie cant hurt


rm_lickmepretty 51F
851 posts
11/19/2005 5:59 pm

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rm_iamkalbo 63M
1 post
11/25/2005 11:12 pm

i agree.... most men are really chauvinistic and thinks that they're non-virgin girlfriends are sluts. poor guys. so many hang ups. they never thought that once you devirginize your girl, that girl is doomed. i vote that these guys who still think the same be gone forever. cheer up and look for some other dicks to fuck your wet cunt and don't mind them. dump that bastard, will you. maybe i can fill you with my own cum and you won't be hearing these snide remarks from me....LOL


rm_Miagurl2 36F
3 posts
11/29/2005 6:20 am

baldlovin....hmmm

Well... lets see

1. camasutra (I'll bet you haven't tried them all yet ) maybe.
2. Erotic massage (probably done already?- uhuh)
3. Anal (only by choice... what I've heard, it can hurt - not into it)
4. Striptease (probably you have done that already... but has he? nice idea! )
5. A third person (hey, only suggestions.. you know best what to do and what not to -- maybe not at this point)
6. Cheat on him (would that be a first?... though probably wouldn't let him feel much better :s -- he doesnt have to know
7. Costume part (dress like santa's little helper and let him tell you what he wants for christmas... is he asking naughty things? - haha! ill keep that in mind)
8. Bondage/ SM... hey, new stuff, isn't it -- errrrr
9. Fuck him for once (put on that dildo in front of you, get him in the position... and WHAP there you have your new experience ) haha!
10. Try it at places you have never done it before.

A few thoughts that come to mind. Yet, for more suggestions, ask around here, I believe there are quite a few people with more experience and more "new things" in their knowledge to do then me, but probably this gives you a little more insight.


rm_Miagurl2 36F
3 posts
11/29/2005 6:24 am

Hi everybody. Thanks for the replies. Anyway, i think my bf and I are ok already. I think he's gotten over that thing we had. How do I know? Well....we're doing it again so i guess its ok.

PS..mr lolly...yes i agree with you although i didnt tell him that. Just showed it to him again.


dashingdan2000 47M
27 posts
12/11/2005 3:11 am

hi miagurl. what happened between you and bf has somehow put a crack in your relationship. but it was his fault. he should not have asked such questions which lead to him being hurt. he should not judge for your past and should accept who you are in the present. i would not subscribe to the idea of baldlovin just now. it would not be a good thing to do it now. your bf may not ask you again, but at the back of his mind, he may think you have done this new and exciting things suggested by baldlovin to your past bfs.

it would be much better that you have a heart to heart talk about this and set everything straight -- talk about your future plans and expectations from another. both of you should be sincere and honest about it. if he can't sincerely accept you for who you are, ditch him and move on. there are lots of men out there who are much more broad-minded than your present bf. and next time, dont tell much about your past. hehe! in the meantime, just let me know if your need company to nurse your broken heart. i would be willing to help you out.


NigerDawnsGross 44M
66 posts
4/14/2006 7:55 am

initial shock lang siguro yan ng bf mo.. its an ego thing.. but if he really loves u then its gona work out

i can sleep when im dead


rm_speedyjohn69 40M
4 posts
5/2/2006 10:24 pm

hi there..wanna have fun? ym! me jhn_800


RONALD2193 41M
5 posts
7/22/2006 9:02 pm

WELL I HOPE IHAVE AN EXPERIENCE WITH YOU. HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH OTHERS MAKES U REALIZE HOW WELL WILL U IMPROVE WITH UR BF


rm_macky230 31M
2 posts
12/13/2006 3:36 am

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jesh202 28M
1 post
2/18/2011 5:19 am

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