Live and Learn  

rm_Mexican_Mama 54F
2 posts
7/28/2006 6:45 am

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7/31/2007 6:08 pm

Live and Learn

I know this site is for people to meet and have sex, but why do men or even ladies expect to get laid on the first time they meet? Wouldnt you be considered a easy piece of ass? I think a person should get to know a person before doing that. To many DISEASES out there. Live and Learn I guess.

rm_aBuddy4u2000 58M

6/4/2007 10:13 pm

Well, I think there is more talk on this site than action. But then again, maybe I am missing something myself.
It is rare that 2 strangers can first meet and have the right chemistry to just go at it, but it does happen. And when it does, it really is something special.
I hope you get to experience special times with special friends yourself.

rm_greenest4u 55F
4 posts
6/11/2007 8:32 am

Mexican Mama and Buddy..
Is true, there are alot of expectations that come along with this site. But then we have to ask ourselves why did we join it in the first place? This isnt a site to make "best" friends although you can, I have, but its a site to find passion, meet desires and find that person that just takes our breath away by even just the sight of them. Its up to the single person who joined here to be in control of what happens next. You can tell by talking to someone what is the main thing on their mind, True, some are really good at the art of deception, I know, been there, done that! But if its anything to build on, you can see it, even feel it. I've worried sometime about it just as you said Mexican MaMa, being labeled that "easy piece of ass"..but in reality if that happens I've put myself in that position. Not something I want either but sometimes when you meet someone and the chemistry is there its hard to be in and show the control. Then you wonder because you let yourself give in, do they look at you differently? Was there anything there that was real? Worse yet, is it all they wanted, the one time? Thats where being honest and open comes in, well, that should be the number 1 thing but usually in a site like this, its a rarity. So this is where I agree with you Buddy, things should be discussed and if its not there, its not there! Its only fair to the other person it involves to know that. If one cannot bring themselves to explain why the conversation stops or why there was no more than one bounce even though that person was led to believe something entirely different in the beginning then thats where we made our first mistake. We fell short of ourselves. Im a good woman, I have boundries and I have limitations but you have to trust your gut feelings in situations like this. We have no one to blame but ourselves if we let it happen and it turns out to be false affection. Worse case scenario, one developes feelings for another and suddenly their gone or their interest is gone, who do we blame? For me, there is no such thing as a non-emotional screw. Passion steps in on every level, we all hope we find our "dream" partner and find happiness in the end but sometimes it just doesnt work that way so we live on...won't be our first mistake we've made and surely wont be our last!

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