Just how can we work up the pyramid?  

rm_MeMakesThree 55M
3 posts
11/21/2005 11:57 am

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Just how can we work up the pyramid?

Interesting site, this AdultFriendFinder. I've been a standard member for about a year and a half now. And, not only due to other's cautiousness, but my own as well, I've only hooked up a few times. Now, don't get me wrong... those few times have been pretty fun. I'm married and thus choose anonymous encounters.

What is more strange are the times that I have NOT hooked up! I've arranged more non-events than I can remember. Something always happens. But, the main thing that seems to come up is that I'm married! What is the big deal? I don't converse with anyone about a long relationship, or even a continuing one if that's not a desire. But, why is it okay to have casual anonymous sex with a single person and not a married one? This is especially true for the guys. The married women on here seem to be admired for going out and getting what they're missing in their marriage... or for just seeking some additional fun. No harm. No foul. In fact, there are a couple of popular married women on this site who I'd love to talk to every now and then even without the chance of a sexual encounter. I'd like to find out just what they do and like that is so different than me.

I've responded to dozens of couples seeking a married male third for their experimentation, and to women wanting some extra fun with "no strings". 99% of these don't materialize. We swap pics, have good chats and then, nothing. I guess the married part means we're clean or safe or D/D free, but the stigma rules everything else.

Can't two people just chat, find each other attractive and satisfy each other sexually? Seems like a lot of people looking for the same thing without much getting done.

Glad to join Blog-world. Hope to see your comments.


RockPebble 69M
2487 posts
11/21/2005 1:52 pm

Great picture man, if you had them you wouldn't need to hook up on here. I only joined recently, tried to follow the chat rooms - they move way too fast. One girl (I checked, she was 22, I'm 5 announced she was looking for someone in my area, I told her I was available, she checked my profile and must have decided I was too old or too married. She acted just like a guy, she just disappeared. I am trying blogging, maybe I can find some like minds now and get laid later. Good luck.

rm_lickmepretty 51F
851 posts
11/21/2005 1:57 pm

Hi, welcome to blog!

Are you aware there is a new group created for bloggers and their readership to meet and frolic in the chat room? (A place for serious discussion as well)

A group where interesting blog posts will be “spot-lighted” along with the links of how to get there. A place where new kids on the block can actually get seen as well as the predominant “hierarchy”.

A place where ideas can flow--from suggested blog topics, to writing "critiques", to directions on how to better use the elements of color, photos, and font style/size to make your blog more eye appealing; as well as instructions on how to better use linking to other posts.

Being that this is an adult site, we will also have a group post running where writers and their followers can indicate where they're from so maybe you might actually be able to meet some folk "local" to you.

Flirtatious banter is encouraged--crude obscene assaults will not be tolerated and are subject to deletion.

So...Stop in and have a little fun over your cup o' joe!

Here is a link to the group Blog Cafe, look forward to meeting you there!

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