It's a date?  

rm_MaxPornaday 37M
82 posts
8/20/2006 9:49 pm

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8/24/2006 8:25 pm

It's a date?

What exactly counts as a date? Does the first face to face meeting between two parties count as a date?

Today, I met a woman for lunch for the first time in person. We had messaged through the personals site and had a few conversations on the phone. We had some laughs over our meal, and when the check came, she asked if we should split it. I declined, of course, but it got me wondering, "does she not consider this a date?"

After lunch, we had talked about going to see a movie at the theater next door, so i made sure to write down the showtimes before I left the house. Unfortunately, she got to the ticket window before me and we ended up paying separately. The movie was entertaining and kind of silly, but contained enough shocking moments to make us jump in our seats.

Looking back, I realize I made a horrible mistake in not paying attention to her body language, so I really have no idea whther or not to consider this a date or a casual meeting.

dimplesfouryou 45F
24690 posts
8/21/2006 9:39 pm

Max--I always offer to pay, whether on a date or not...what bothers me is that she didn't pay for your movie when she paid for hers. I always try to pay for something for my date, unless he insists. Have ya called her yet? good luck!


rm_MaxPornaday 37M

8/24/2006 8:25 pm

Called her since the 'date'? Nope. I'm not sure she's into the "just calling to chit chat" thing. Maybe this weekend...

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