Bondage - so what's the attraction?  

rm_Masato13 62M
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8/26/2006 11:33 pm

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Bondage - so what's the attraction?

Where to begin? Why bondage? Why would anyone want to be tied up and why would anybody want to tie up anybody?

Well, in my mind anyway bondage is just a fetish like so many others. To me it has nothing to do with a persons personality type (I consider myself to be of the dominate variety)but rather a something special inside of you that sends butterflies dancing when ever the subject is brought up.

It is the thrill of ultimate control over another persons well being. It is no less about ultimate trust. Let me give you a real life example if I may.

Not too many months ago I happened to meet a wonderful woman that had never been tied hand and foot and had this real need..nay..craving that she just had to satisfy. Our first meeting was supposed to be a get to know you coffee. Imagine my surprise (and good fortune) when she wanted to forgo the formalities and get down to this bondage business.

She trusted me though with a devious little mind like mine I cannot imagine why to tie her up right then and there. Having no place to go I had her tied with her wrists and elbows lashed behind her back and her ankles bound to the bottom of the front seat. Off we went for a ride around the city.

As it was a nice day I suggested to her that perhaps a brisk walk in the park would be in order. She had very little choice in the matter so we parked, I untied her ankles, placed a coat over her shoulders and off we went. It was a busy park too.

The control I felt was intoxicating to say the least. She was thrilled with the prospect of perhaps being discovered. I threatened to display her at the mall and had way too much fun teasing her but she never got upset. Trust. Control.

I have much more to add and will do so later. Let me know what your thoughts are.


Mermaidslut 49F

8/27/2006 12:22 am

i'd have to really trust someone to do that


CB_2 51F

8/29/2006 3:00 pm

Sounds like she was a bit of a thrill-seeker, to go for something as risky as that on a first date. I agree, it would have to be about trust for me.

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rm_Masato13 62M
128 posts
8/29/2006 4:02 pm

I have this fatherly face that lurer's the pretties into my clutches.
BWWWHHHAAAaaaaaaaa

Seriously, I could not of been more surprised as the deal was to bring along my little bag of tricks for her to examine and discuss. However I have met people on this site and sites like this that I have gotten a very good feel for and would trust them to truss me in a heart beat.


asensualsexdrive 49F  
258 posts
9/12/2006 11:52 am

It is amazing to do something with someone for the first time no matter what it is. I am not sure if I could ever explain this well enough to make anyone understand, so I will just say it. I think it has to be more about the outcome that you can find pleasure in first experiences such as this one.

I have to say that the most intoxicating feeling is meeting someone that makes you feel like it's the first time every time. No matter how many times you are with them, it is earth shattering and breathtaking. They make you question how you could have any better feeling than the one you know right now? This time feels better than any other time in my life, and you were just with them only moments ago.

I understand trust, really I do, but this kind of trust is more of a complete trust of myself rather than of them. I trust how I feel, even though I have never felt this way before, I have never known this feeling, but I know it feels as if I have known it forever. It has always been with me, I just never found anyone to feel so passionate about to share it with. Hope this doesn't sound silly, I only read this post and had to reply with these thoughts, thank you for the inspiration to reflect my heart.


rm_Masato13 62M
128 posts
9/12/2006 12:57 pm

    Quoting asensualsexdrive:
    It is amazing to do something with someone for the first time no matter what it is. I am not sure if I could ever explain this well enough to make anyone understand, so I will just say it. I think it has to be more about the outcome that you can find pleasure in first experiences such as this one.

    I have to say that the most intoxicating feeling is meeting someone that makes you feel like it's the first time every time. No matter how many times you are with them, it is earth shattering and breathtaking. They make you question how you could have any better feeling than the one you know right now? This time feels better than any other time in my life, and you were just with them only moments ago.

    I understand trust, really I do, but this kind of trust is more of a complete trust of myself rather than of them. I trust how I feel, even though I have never felt this way before, I have never known this feeling, but I know it feels as if I have known it forever. It has always been with me, I just never found anyone to feel so passionate about to share it with. Hope this doesn't sound silly, I only read this post and had to reply with these thoughts, thank you for the inspiration to reflect my heart.
Very eloquently put indeed and no you sound far from silly. I'm just happy that this little blog of mine brought something in you out.


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