Size and Stamina: too much of a good thing?  

rm_MariGrrl 39F
2485 posts
12/20/2005 11:26 am

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Size and Stamina: too much of a good thing?

Okay, we've all heard the debates on the size issue. Does size matter or is it how you use it that counts? This question usually refers to men of lesser proportions. What about the other end of the spectrum though? How big is too big? Am I the only woman who looks at some of the pics on here and just thinks "ouch"? When I was in college I actually dumped a guy because he was just too damn big. Sex with him would have been physically impossible.

And what about stamina. We all joke about the 3 pump chumps, but what of those rare males that seem to last forever? Don't get me wrong, marathon sex is great, but isn't the occasional quickie nice too. You know, a little mid-day tension reliever. So, I'm also wondering about duration and what other people's preferences are. In this age of viagra and desensitizing creams, have we convinced men that they have to preform like machines?

muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
12/20/2005 12:17 pm

I am about 9" long and a little over 7" around. I agree I have found that you can go to deep. One solution is a very thick cock ring with vibrator. I have been told that diameter is the most important thing and have always given my partners s g spot orgasm. More G spots than Clitoral. I have been told by partners that they are now convinced that size does matter. As far as stamina, I think it is how good of shape you are in and especially having your prostrate muscle in shape, is what truely matters.

pleasingorally69 64M
296 posts
12/20/2005 12:34 pm

I been told each way. Size matters and I heard size doesn't matter.
What I come to the end is that in most cases I heard many women say depending on there mood can determine what makes a difference.

At times they want size to fit perfect and the use.

But there is a thing as too big which causes discomfort....

TommyJ1977 45M

1/2/2006 9:48 pm


I don't know if I should even be responding to your post however, I will. I feel that every person responds to sex in different ways. That is why we have been given free will, we decide what we like best. For some that may be a lifethreatening, body splitting organ that is just not normal. While for others it may be just the right size so they can simply feel a closer connection with their partner. As far as stamina goes, quickies are awesome but I'm sure there are a select few people out there that want not just marathon sex but to melt together with the person they share their life and love with. Yeah, I know, mushy crap, but the truth of the matter is some guys are just getting so desensitized that like you said, maybe the wrong message is getting to them. I don't know what all those people out there want, I'm not even sure if I know what I want anymore. What I do know is that when it feels right, hold tight and don't let go. That sounds perverse, but I really did mean something by that. I know the feeling but I let go, more than once and hope that I find that feeling again. This time I will know what to do. Now maybe we can hear from some females other than you since we have some male thoughts on the issue.

periwinkleblue 31F

1/13/2006 1:46 am

I'm right with you.

My hubby's of average size and I find it just perfect. I see pics on here that make me squirm (in a bad way) just glancing at them.

And stamina to me is something that should vary with each session. Sometimes I think he cums too quick, but other times it begins getting sore too. I would never want to be with a guy who had a marathon every time, that would probably scare me off.

There's a lot of truth in "leave 'em wanting".

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