Dear WistfulJester  

rm_MariGrrl 39F
2485 posts
6/23/2006 10:31 am

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Dear WistfulJester

I am writing my comment to your post [post 399288] here because you do not allow comments of those outside your network on your blog.

My comment is simple. In your own blog you state that you visited HB's blog on a regular basis. That you've viewed her profile a couple times and then joined a group she belongs to. You have also emailed her. Hmmmm that sounds like stalking to me. If ya don't like the woman then just leave her alone.

She had not previously named you in her blog. The only reason I ever knew about you was by reading your comments in response to her post. So let me share with you the very best thing about blogland. If you don't like someone just leave them alone. I normally would do the same regarding you (and have up until now). But, joining her group was the last straw. This group is for the very same married people on here that you are so quick to judge. So, there could be absolutely no reason for you joining this group other than to harass her.

You make yourself out to be the victim in this. The only thing you seem to be a victim of is your own delusional over inflated self image. HB is loved by many on this site... get over it already.

Why pull up the profile (more than once) of someone you obviously don't like. Why email her. For someone of your obviously very advanced years you should be more mature than that.

If you want to accuse someone of writing about you in their blog then accuse me. I have named your name. I would have preferred to leave this comment on your blog but, evidently opposing viewpoints aren't welcome. I find that cowardly as well.

I post my views for all to see and comment on... agree or disagree. I do not attack those that merely have a differing viewpoint. I will, however, not tolerate the harassment of someone I consider to be a dear friend.

Grow up, get a life and move the fuck on already!

Yours Truly,
Marigrrl (one of HB's "ignorant" friends)

comments welcome


TechSteve 49M

6/23/2006 11:45 am

I have a few comments and questions.

What was the original post HB made in Jesters blog ?

Jester said it was 'vile filth'. Jester, if you are reading this, you should have left it instead of deleting it. If somebody opposed me in my blog, I would have left it and I would have made an example of them.

Perving somebodys blog and profile is NOT stalking in my opinion. I think many people on this site abuse the word STALKING. If she doesnt like him e mailing her, she can block him. He shouldnt have e mailed her. I prefer things to be out in the open if possible.

As far as that group goes, he didnt like that HB in the group named him and credited him for the reason the group was started and he wanted it known that he was upset about it. I did NOT agree that he went in there and threatened to go to the abuse team though. He was not abused in my opinion. I dont consider it abusive for somebody to go in a group and RESPECTFULLY object to their name or character being assassinated.

It is his right to restrict comments in his blog.

I dont understand it. I dont agree with his reasons. I dont think it is fair to take shots at people and not allow them to defend themselves and that is my view for the whole site.

Steve


rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/23/2006 4:55 pm:
I agree with you on some of your points. Simply perving a blog or profile is not stalking. My point however is, that if he has such a problem with her, then why continue monitoring her activities. My accusation of stalking stems from his visit to the group she belongs to. If he hadn't been snooping around in the first place how would he even know what was said? I don't picture him just "accidentally" wandering into this group due to the face that it goes against his firm stand against the married people on this site.

You are also correct that it is his right to not allow comments. However, to personally attack someone by name right out there in the blogs for everyone to see and then not allow them to share their side seems very cowardly to me.

I have seen his attacks against HB and like I stated in my post if he hadn't responded the way he did I would have never known who she was talking about. I had completely forgotten about the original post in question and probably would not have made the connection on my own. I would also like to point out that not every post she writes is about him. He just assumes they are.

To answer your question, his original post was regarding married people on this site. HB responded (sorry don't remember her exact words) by saying it was wrong of him to judge others.

Also, from what I understand when HB banned him from her blog he began to post on the blogs of some of her friends and then visiting her group. I find his level of maturity very questionable.

Lastly, I would like to thank you for your very balanced comment. Personal attacks due to disagreements are really pointless and its nice to see that there are still those on here that can question and disagree in an adult like manner.

sexymamma662003 31F

6/23/2006 11:51 am

You go girl friend

~sexy~


rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/23/2006 4:56 pm:
I normally avoid drama, but HB doesn't need this crap. This man needed to be called out for what he is.

imaxtoy 33M
1289 posts
6/23/2006 12:12 pm

Sounds like drama. I know I left a certain chat site and abandoned my website for that same reason. I always hate conflict and am smart enough to just let it be. Agree to disagree. Hope it resolves quickly.

imax, the toyed


rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/23/2006 4:58 pm:
I hope it resolves quickly as well. If you've ever visited heartlessbitch69 's blog then I'm sure you know what a funny, intelligent woman she is. I don't take kindly to people insulting and harassing my friends.

loadeddice05 44M

6/23/2006 2:42 pm

By HB do you mean hotnbothered??? Isn't her handle different now!!!

I think the anoynmity of this site can cause crazy, desperate people to deliberately FUCK with others?? I won't erase stupid comments from my blog!!! And I can be king stupid!! But if this guy is so sensitive and doesn't like her( a hard thing to do??) He should act like she does not exist!!! But he obviously cannot ignore her!!!! i have the same problem????LOL


rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/23/2006 5:01 pm:
Yeah, she's heartlessbitch69 now. I agree totally and I know you've been going through similar crap on your blog. There are a few people I don't really care for on here. But, I don't run around repeatedly checking their blogs and profiles, nor do I seek out confrontation. I just don't read their posts... simple as that. Once is clear to me that we're not clicking I don't visit anymore. I don't have the time or the patience for bitch fights. This guy needs a hobby.

readytolay_3
(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)
105F

6/23/2006 3:25 pm

Thank you for you words of thought and wit...If ANYone should be harassed its me as I was the one who answered him in his attack on all of us in H/B's blog and it simple..."If you can't take it DON'T TOSS IT...Beside HE STARTED it by attacking Us in a BLOG that is open to all....And it's true it's all so high school but now he has threaten a friend and this shit must end....Ready

Ready


rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/23/2006 5:02 pm:
Exactly, Ready. I couldn't believe that he hid the original post and is now trying to play this all of like he's the victim. I was too mature for that shit in high school. Adults should know better.

sexymamma662003 31F

6/23/2006 4:06 pm

    Quoting loadeddice05:
    By HB do you mean hotnbothered??? Isn't her handle different now!!!

    I think the anoynmity of this site can cause crazy, desperate people to deliberately FUCK with others?? I won't erase stupid comments from my blog!!! And I can be king stupid!! But if this guy is so sensitive and doesn't like her( a hard thing to do??) He should act like she does not exist!!! But he obviously cannot ignore her!!!! i have the same problem????LOL
sorry mari dont mean to take over

no HB is heartlessbitch

~sexy~


sexymamma662003 31F

6/23/2006 5:23 pm

oh gosh i am sorry i was all confused when i qouted him. you can deleat that if ya want sorry

~sexy~


rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/23/2006 6:31 pm:
No sweat, you were just clarifying things for him. No need to apologize

TechSteve 49M

6/23/2006 7:24 pm

He posted a rant in the rants and raves section of the magazine, which was a copy and paste of something in his blog, and I replied to it with a balanced answer. He mentioned the group name and HB.

It was deleted within a few minutes after I posted my reply.

I dont know if HB or somebody complained on her behalf to the abuse team.

It would have been a good neutral place to debate. Nobody would be able to delete comments.

Steve


rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/24/2006 10:29 am:
I don't really picture HB reporting that to abuse. Like she said, she doesn't even read the magazine. I don't know of any of her friends that go there either. I would think that he deleted the post himself.

Although I am obviously not neutral in this situation, I promise that any comments on this post will be left for all to see. I've found the best way to deal with argumentative types is to let them dig their own holes. So, all comments are welcome here.

HeartlessBitch69 46F

6/23/2006 8:51 pm

    Quoting TechSteve:
    He posted a rant in the rants and raves section of the magazine, which was a copy and paste of something in his blog, and I replied to it with a balanced answer. He mentioned the group name and HB.

    It was deleted within a few minutes after I posted my reply.

    I dont know if HB or somebody complained on her behalf to the abuse team.

    It would have been a good neutral place to debate. Nobody would be able to delete comments.

    Steve
I don't go to the mag. section. And what I had posted in his blog was the fact the names he used in his attack on married people who cheat was uncalled for, and that he has no right to judge others for thier actions that he himself is not directly affected. He responded to me with the same hate he always uses. And my simple responce back to him was, I could understand why he does not get any action cause he is an ugly old man. He then deleted everything.
My blog was not only directed at him, it was directed at all the judgmental assclowns on A.F.F who bad mouth others! And I did it all in my own blog, and I never once mentioned his handle. Go to keywords and put in his handle and you will find I never stated his handle in my blog!
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Thank you Girlfriend for this post! Ya know I love you!


rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/24/2006 10:24 am:
You are very welcome woman. He wouldn't let me comment on his blog, so I posted it here. This guy is obsessed and I just don't have the patience for his crap. Plus, you know I love ya and anyone who fucks with you gets me to fuck with as well. I'm damn proud to be on of your "ignorant" friends

bulging_boy 49M

6/23/2006 11:06 pm

Yep,

Some self obsessed fuckers need to get a life.


rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/24/2006 10:25 am:
You summed up my entire post right there. I totally agree!

sexymamma662003 31F

6/24/2006 3:02 pm

update.

AdultFriendFinder erased everything off our group and his blogs that had anything to do that was pertaining us at all

~sexy~


flagg134 35M
1582 posts
6/24/2006 3:53 pm

Well while I do have a problem with lies. I don't judge the people who make them as there could be countless reasons why they were told. Since I don't know those reasons I don't comment on it. His crusade against one person over such a simple issue. If you disagree say your piece and be done with it. If you really feel the need to argue do it within reason without tossing insults. Personally I think the man is a coward to post something defacing her then not allowing her to defend herself.

Unfortunately I sound a little like a hypocrite as I banned my local troll my reasoning was that he was disruptive and harassing friends of mine which is going to far in my opinion. Pick on me in my blog all you want but don't attack my friends.

RF


rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/26/2006 11:09 am:
You are most definitly not a hypocrite. The person that you banned (if I'm thinking of the right person) was just a bored pathetic waste of blog space. He had no interest in discussing anything. He just wanted to spout off insults. You were 100% justified (especially since he was attacking your friends as well).

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