Is it time to Play?  

rm_MRich5683 45M
8 posts
3/8/2006 5:09 pm

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Is it time to Play?


On marriages one and two, I think I played the field more than I was home. Third times a charm, in my case yes it has been. I have been monogamous for many years now. However, the time has come where I miss being a player and having extra friends and lovers. Yet, I am happy with my marriage. My wife says go for it.(Yes, we both talk openly about sex and if we wish to play around,which she has on several occasions) I am truly thinking about it, and am even seeing a few possibilities since joining the site. Past experience though (first marriages) makes me think that once I do I am in for a major change in my life again. So, To Do or Not To Do that is the question. Please post comments, ideas, questions or your feelings on the matter.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
3/8/2006 7:15 pm

Welcome to the blogs.....

Purry {=}

Purry


sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
3/8/2006 7:20 pm

If you really have your wife's green light and you're comfy with it, just go right ahead.


Allsleeky 35F

3/8/2006 7:30 pm

As long as you're not hiding it from your wife and she agrees with it, why not.
have fun and welcome to the blogs


rm_MRich5683 45M
5 posts
3/9/2006 8:46 am

Thank you all for the warm welcome to the blogs. Well, her exact wording was "Sure, go for it"...I have to wonder when that is a yes and when its a dont you dare...lol how do you tell the difference?


rm_melisiousxo 48F
182 posts
3/9/2006 1:34 pm

Well...if you want a divorce..sure. I don't think it ever really "works" plus, alot of the fun comes from the risk. If I were able to say.."honey" I'm going to go fuck someone I met on-line..see you later..and he said.."Ok have fun, bring back some ice cream" ummmmm see where I'm going with this? I dunno..it's just my opinion. But then again, I've never been in an open honest relationship..so maybe you should just ignore this alltogether?


THEREALJOKER1 40M

3/9/2006 6:40 pm

ok brutha........men and women DO NOT speak the same language......"sure,go for it" actually means......."there is no turning back,just know,im doing it too"............and dude,if you love her......why the hell isnt she in the mix w/you???......sorry brutha...........just freakin remember......your wife knows when she's not #1.....gl


rm_MRich5683 45M
5 posts
3/12/2006 11:51 am

Thanks for your comments and welcomes. I have decided to let fate decide...lol If the oportunity happens, if it doesnt it doesnt. Be Well and Safe all.


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