Would you tell your parents you were on this site?  

rm_LoyalCumpany 46M
2036 posts
4/23/2006 5:28 am

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6/3/2006 3:11 am

Would you tell your parents you were on this site?

The reason I wondered is I am going to my father's/stepmother's house today to watch the playoffs on their high def TV (note to anyone. Want to make me feel really special? Forget getting me laid. Buy me one of those. I'll put it in my bedroom window, put on some porn, and the neighbors will think I'm finally getting laid).

I'm sure those of you who see or talk to your parents regularly get the same old questions about how your week went and what did you do yesterday. I hate lying, so what am I going to say? Me; "I blogged all weekend" Dad: "You have a blog? Where?" Me; "On a site called AdultFriendFinder" Dad; "What's that? Sounds like a porn site." (Actually, I almost bet my father knows about this site. Dirty Old Man, he taught me well).

It's at that point I'm going to be stumped. Do I tell him "Yeah, but I'm still not getting laid, Pop." or "It's harmless fun, really" or "I'm paying for the pleasure of being sexually frustrated"?

What would you tell your parents?

I am JoJo the Circus Boy!

rm_truedom2 55M
663 posts
4/23/2006 6:44 am

I tell everyone that I have a blog "on the internet" and if they ask which site I reply with a wicked laugh "I'm not telling you...I only want strangers reading my most personal thoughts"

rm_LoyalCumpany replies on 4/23/2006 3:55 pm:
First off, I'd like to congratulate you for being the first male to have the balls to post on my blog. lol

Good point about y'all being strangers readng my thoughts. Then again, I talk about the same sort of stuff with people I know. Maybe that's why my employer won't let me work in a public capacity?

rm_wetfingeraz 53F
3012 posts
4/23/2006 10:11 am

If my parents were still alive, both of them would have been on this site. But, of course, nobody would talk about it. I've only told a couple of people about this site, when they ask where I'm meeting all these men. Mostly, I just say "FriendFinder" and leave it at that.

rm_LoyalCumpany replies on 4/23/2006 3:57 pm:
What a day. My first male responder, and the very first person to respond to any of my entries. I like your idea, but if I say that, won't they be searching for it?

rm_LoyalCumpany 46M
3204 posts
4/23/2006 4:01 pm

Got lucky(?). They didn't ask any specifics. Closest they got was ask how my social life was going and laugh at me.

I am JoJo the Circus Boy!

velvethandsNZ 68M

4/25/2006 9:52 pm

Gotcha - 'Cause I'm a dad!

I was chatting with my daughter a few months ago, and she told me she had a Blog - I asked where - she told me it was on AdultFriendFinder ! I didn't tell her I was on here too - just said I was happy for her and her partner and left her with a quizical look on her face LOL

She's found me since and thinks its neat that we have two generations on here!.

Now, I'm off to read your advice as I got here by mistake but it looks like a worthwhile read!!

Go well, love long and prosper!

rm_LoyalCumpany replies on 4/25/2006 10:08 pm:
Really? Have you ever quizzed each other on some of the revolting things you've seen here?

velvethandsNZ 68M

4/25/2006 11:49 pm

No - we keep our thought and activities on here private - as private as we keep our genitals. I have to say that pictures of genitalia really do put me off corresponding with people - I can't imagine having a chat with that part of the anatamy of someone I don't know very well! Lets face it, the sequence in which people expose their bodies to the public here is often VERY strange!


rm_LoyalCumpany replies on 4/26/2006 3:34 am:
Agreed, vehemently. Even as a male, I appreciate the face and eyes more than I want to see an ass or pussy. Some of the shots from behind are OK too, as long as they leave something to the imagination.

I bet your daughter would want to censor her exhibitionism a little, knowing Dad is watching.

velvethandsNZ 68M

4/26/2006 5:05 am

She better not - she was raised to be herself at all times - anyway her long term live-in man would do that before me!! PMSL!

rm_LoyalCumpany replies on 4/26/2006 5:29 am:
You're starting to sound something like my own father, DOM (Dirty Old Man) as I affentionately call him. He and my stepmother have this philosophy of "It's OK to look, just don't touch".

velvethandsNZ 68M

4/26/2006 1:05 pm

Ah - Tel DOM (does tham mean you are DYM?) that I agree - readin the menus is a fine time-filler, but you need permission to eat out!


nottycara 36F

6/2/2006 7:25 pm

HMMM i tell mom everything and tell dad nothing! He just cant handle it. I mean he thinks and expects me to be a virgin until today and he stil constantly asks my mom what went wrong, how come i have never brought a bf home. well doesnt mean i dont have one! I jus dont take them home to be scarred away thats all!

Mom and i discuss about my first blowjob and first girlgirl experience! Havent told her about passion.com yet because her brains jus dont register it when it comes to gadgets and computers.

Naughty cara

rm_LoyalCumpany replies on 6/2/2006 11:01 pm:
Every time I see ya on here, I just wonder how notty you really are. God I need to get laid!

I actually told my father I have a blog on an adult site. He proceeded to tell me he visits a couple of sites himself (though I had already suspected that).

nottycara 36F

6/3/2006 1:27 am

I am very very naughty when i have decided on my partner in crime. Either that i can re phrase to when i have decided on my victim Should i tell u more that would be in our private conversations. "Naughty" has never been defined this way

U make me wanna ask a question. I have a question for you.

rm_LoyalCumpany replies on 6/3/2006 3:13 am:
Ooh, I love questions. Honda Civic! No.... yellow bellied sapsucker! Umm... 14???

Ask away, here or in private.

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