My first meeting  

rm_LovelyVoyeur 44F
38 posts
8/26/2005 2:07 am

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My first meeting

My first meeting from anyone on AdultFriendFinder was a married man. I am looking for the woman to play with but he seemed like a nice man. He was very nice.

We had coffee at a coffee shop in Kannai, Yokohama. We just talked for a few hours. He was a very intelligent man and very considerate for my feelings. It made me want to have him.

He wasn't pushy and was happy just for the talking. He had many experiences and can give the good advice. I still think about getting more.

I was not sure of my goals. Did I want to have sex with another man? I often e-mail him and he always answers. He sometimes writes sexy to me and sometimes serious. A very incredible man. I'm now sad I am married to a lazy Japanese salaryman!

AmberSolaire 42M

8/26/2005 6:12 pm

Sounds like you were lucky.Many first meets are not so good.

Romanticallyours 51M
3 posts
9/4/2005 6:44 pm

There are good men out there. If you can ignore the many guys who so full of ego and so empty inside.

Married men should be kind and considerate since they can not offer commitment or marriage. Some guys just appreciate having someone else to talk with.

Personally, I've found married women to be the best lovers. Since they are too often neglected and know how to appreciate someones attentions. They have been kind and gentle to me.

I'm sorry that your relationship with your husband is not so happy for you. Please change with age and proximity. Sometimes you can talk a relationship back but your husband has to be open to communication. Some men aren't. I think it is sad that people lose that special connection that made them want to be together.

Communication is the best beginning. If you decide to try others, see how much they are willing to talk with you.

I wish you much luck...and love.

lostinjapan2005 54M
1 post
9/5/2005 5:31 pm

I hope you find what you want. It can be very lonely in this concrete jungle and it is hard to find someone to laugh with and to hold. I know. It is hard to believe that with so many people here that it is hard to meet friends. It can be very lonely and especially so when everyone around you seems to have found someone.

Wishing you well

rm_jaxxx30 43M
9 posts
9/13/2005 12:38 am

Well Lovely if your husband doesn't make you happy and he's lazy I see nothing wrong with you finding your own joy. Some of my friends are married to Japanese business men and they always complain that they lack passion, not that caring of their needs. And I told them the same thing I'm telling you. Find something or someone to make you happy if even for a short period.

rm_lovechild54 47M

9/13/2005 1:08 am

Good Afternoon
It's good to hear that you enjoyed talking with this man and nothing else on your first meeting.Many people that come to this site only want to have " 1 night stands!!!! " but some of us do not! I personally think that if you want to meet him agian or others go for it!!!!!! But, others.... married are the best cause ussally they are looking for long term friends both in and out of the bedroom!!!! wish you the best of luck and I know of a few good places to meet around the Yokohama Station area!!!

KenJapon 45M/44F

9/27/2005 12:29 am

I have lived more than 10 years in Japan. And I know japanese husbands do not take much care of their wives. Romance is not a part of japanese couples. But we should not judge your man just by that. Compared to occidentals, Japanese man have a very strong feeling of responsability. Japanese men are very inteligent and progressive too. Many women nowadays think occidental men are "only sex" and "no brains". I am occidental. I lived more than 20 years in USA and Latin America. I know Europe too. Now I have been living more 10 years in Japan. And I think those women sometimes are right. Sometimes I feel ashamed of being occidental. Please, do not underestimate your husband`s potential. I think it is good and healthy to be open about sex and to try another man, a girl or a couple, but forgeting your love and respect for your husband is not necessary... Nobody is perfect... KenJapon

dryan1977 39M

8/16/2006 5:48 pm

do u have a free time? contact me

rm_LovelyVoyeur 44F
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8/20/2006 2:00 am

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