Well,,,what the fuck  

rm_LostLilSoul 46F
373 posts
7/19/2005 8:14 am

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Well,,,what the fuck

Ok, Im am puzzled and confused and just recovering from something that I cant ever remembering happening to me..you know the guy I talked about in my last post? well, I never did get with him again but I cant say I didnt try. He would absoultly not allow himself to get close to me in any way..he wouldnt even kiss me.,hes gone now and wont be back for a few weeks and now he says he wants to see where things go so im confused.. I know he just got out of a unhealthy relationship with a drunk bitch who has decided if he isnt going to be with her she will make sure he sits in jail and he's went back to her after shes done this to him 4 times..its almost like he refuses to see how sick in the head she is... I really like him but Im thinking getting close to him is just going to leave me broken hearted because Im not sure he is done with her., dont you think he would of at least kissed me if he was seriously over that chic?? I dont know what to do,,,any input on this?

Falconmoon 57M

7/19/2005 1:24 pm

Run girl!!!! Find someone who will be more than happy to kiss you! He is stuck on this thing of his and it has nothing to do with you, so do not allow yourself to be put in it! YOU are the one who will get hurt! Watch out for yourself first!

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
7/20/2005 3:32 am

Your setting yourself up! If you know it and still go for it, we warned you! What the fuk is up with not kissing you? That tells me he doesn't care about you, he's into himself right now. I know you will do this anyway so be careful! see even I kissed you from here!

rm_ltcol0012 56M

7/20/2005 5:40 pm

I think the challenge thing is some of it. But I also think there are those that have such big hearts that they are naturally drawn to a loser, people who are scorned by society and/or friends, and those who don't know how to care for themselves. Got a daughter that way. She weeps at a dead animal along the road and her boyfriend is a cowboy in a school that hates cowboys. She's just got that heart that can reach out to many places that the majority cannot. Is she wrong? No. That's just the way she is and people like her are often recognized as the real saints in our society. Not saying you are like my daughter, but you are perhaps along the fringes. I just know that my daughter will likely suffer much for the way she is. I've seen it happen before. But her daddy can only protect her so far. Some of these lessons she needs to learn by herself. Just hope you don't suffer too, and learn that sometimes you need to look out for #1 before #2 (or 3,or 4 or 5) Hugs-n-Kisses.

ExcitedSenses 38M

7/22/2005 8:36 am

You are so hot AND so sincere. Never settle for a man who doesn't give you what you need. You can do much better. There are good men out there

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