Hey, Where did I go?  

rm_LostLilSoul 46F
373 posts
5/4/2005 2:44 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Hey, Where did I go?

Hows everyone doing?? I havent really been feeling myself lately , guess the stress is finially catching up to me. Its getting better though. Another question for you guys out there, When you just get done having great sex, do you prefer cuddling afterwards or do you jump up and want to do something? and if the person your with jumps up and is off to do other things without wanting to cuddle ,,how does it make you feel? The reason Im asking is because sometimes after really good sex I get energized and get hyper and I jump up and Im ready to do something and I have never really given it much thought to how it might make the person Im with feel..I guess I always assume they know its because they rocked my world but maybe they dont and Im making them feel used or uncared about..I know that sometimes Ive done it just so I dont let that person get close to me,, lol,,, I think I just think to much!! Anyway,, any thoughts?

upifthewindblows 45M

5/4/2005 3:22 pm

You can never think to much. I would have to say I to have done it both ways. I say if depends on the situation. Lets see its Sunday morning and you just had a great f---. Theres no need to jump up and run it's a slow pace day. Lay there and cuddle and talk and Yes do it again. Or maybe your in a hurry to go somewhere but your really horny and a good f-----g will relax you and make the day go better. In that case it's ok to jump up and go. Just make sure your partner knows you had a great time and you want more later. Just my view on things. Later.

TakesTeatsStood 50M
505 posts
5/4/2005 10:30 pm

In one of natures quirky jokes, it seems to me that women, in general, get energy after sex, and men, lose it....... Don't feel bad, I would guess that your partner has experienced it before. But if nothing else you can tell him how great he was and how it just fired you up!!

ExcitedSenses 38M

5/5/2005 9:36 am

sometimes after sex I want even more sex. don't mind cuddling though

ExcitedSenses 38M

5/5/2005 9:37 am

by the way your pics continue to make me desire you

Tristin72 44M

5/6/2005 12:28 am

I think most of us would take it as though you wanted to get away but as always communication is the key. Just let us know why you are doing what you are doing and most of us would be very understanding.

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
5/10/2005 12:07 pm

There are appropriate times to cuddle, or just lay together or say that was great, let's get on with the day and have fun! Your heart will guide you. If you're just there for the sex, there is no reason to stay like there is some emotional connection. So you know what's right for you, so stop thinking about it and come lay back down!!!

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