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When you date and get involved with a woman, you get to know her, what she likes, what she needs, etc. things work out, you talk about thing, try new ideas and brighten up the sex life by experimenting together.
It's not hard to do because of the comfot level you already have with each other because of the relationship and time spent together. And if it is hard to talk about, there is something wrong for sure.
Now, my question for here is, when people meet from here, how do you determine so quickly what the other likes, needs, wants so as not to appear that you have no clue what your doing. Or do you guys just get together and have at it, get whats yours, with no reguard for the other person?
Don't get me wrong. I can tell from reactions if a woman likes what I am doing or not. But, I am more of a sensual kind of person. I like to do alot of teasing, exploring, and the like to get the blood and juices flowing as apposed to just having at it like i paid for it.
Maybe I'm not cut out for this kind of thing?! Maybe I just am miscinstrued to the whole concept? I have no clue. Like I said, this is all new to me. And the things I have done like this before in my younger years was just me looking for a quick piece of ass. Get on, get in, get off, and get out.
Clue me in. Criticise, flame, insult. Don't matter to much to me. Any input would help me understand a little better. Thats all I need. And thanks..