The "Lifestyle"  

rm_Lilith4711 40F
77 posts
7/2/2005 2:30 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The "Lifestyle"


More than once I've been chatting with someone who's asked me how long I've been living the Lifestyle. Now, I'm on here as a single woman, not part of a swinging couple, so I'm not sure what "Lifestyle" people assume I'm leading.

I live my life in a style that makes me happy...I guess that's my lifestyle, but I don't think I lead a proper noun, capital L "Lifestyle" as such. I'm into BDSM, and realize that for some people, that can be a Lifestyle, but I've never implied that it was any more than a hobby for me.

My question is this: Do any of you singles out there consider yourselves to be living a "Lifestyle"? If so, what kind of Lifestyle is is? What does it involve? Maybe I'm living a Lifestyle and don't even know it.

JUSTDOIT2004 52M

7/2/2005 4:34 pm

Monogamy is way overrated, and I remember a quote very well, that variety is the spice of life, I have been with enough women(and a couple wives in between..ha) and they are all good in many different and especially sexual ways! Women are beautiful and sexual creatures and we release our own pheramones before, during and even after sex which makes it all the better. The more I experience, the more I want to experience.....Is that a lifestyle or just a journey??
Looking forward to tomorrow~~


rm_jayR63 59F
1884 posts
7/2/2005 5:08 pm

My lifestyle-
I live in a van down by the river, eat government cheese, and search through trash cans for recyclable aluminum.


dynamitesneon 34M

7/2/2005 11:30 pm

I know I am, but not as often as I'd like.
My lifestyle is unusual sexual activity, we've talked abou thtis. Personally, I think you're living the lifestyle, as it were. You have open and free sexual ideas and practices. You're modern.


eternallover52 64M

7/6/2005 1:39 pm

Monogamy seems almost impossible for most of us. It seems to run counter to human nature.


Mr4Lingus 59M
144 posts
7/7/2005 7:40 pm

I thought the word "lifestyle" means something that one chooses based on a "style" kind of decision. That is, you see other people doing certain things, so you decide to do them too. And then you tailor what you do to match what you see happening elsewhere.

Is this what you do? I doesn't look like it to me. Instead, it seems like you are giving yourself free rein to engage in sybaritic delights. That sounds like fun.

Is there another usage to call swinging "the lifestyle"? I think this is different from the way "lifestyle" is used in advertisements, books, and social research.


rm_book19652006 51M

7/7/2005 9:43 pm

If you think you are living the life style then you are. If you do not think so then you are not. You are doing what makes you happy and you are lucky to not have had some one in life to make you think something is wrong with it. Sex is great and it only gets better with experience. I like it and when I find find the write person we usually stay together for a vary long time and still have it open for each other to be with other people. I like to meet new people, that is why I keep my body in great athletic shape. I’m lean fit and great in delivering. Some people call it the life style big deal. It is just living as you please. People like you are lucky. A lot of people have society, some one, or them selves keeping them form living. Do you agree?


rm_book19652006 51M

7/7/2005 9:45 pm

by the way I love nice tits. Wow you have a nice pair.


Bellefourchelove 62M

7/27/2005 9:04 am

It must be nice to sleep to the gurgling of the river and wake up to an awesome view!


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