Does this make me a horrible person?  

rm_Lilith4711 40F
77 posts
7/13/2005 7:40 pm

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Does this make me a horrible person?

OK, I think I make it clear on my profile that I'm more interested in friends with benefits than in random sex with strangers. I say that a person's personality can really attract me to them. Maybe I should go back and edit it a bit to really emphasize that point because I keep getting email from guys saying, "hey, I'm gonna be in town this weekend, wanna hook up" and "nice tits, can I play with them?" And it's always guys with a two line profile and no picture...ok, so you want me to hook up with what exactly? I don't want to hook up with Sasquatch with a second grade education, so please give me a reason to believe otherwise about you.

Here's my it wrong for me to reply to their emails telling them what morons they are? Is it mean to suggest to them that they actually read my profile or give me a reason to be interested in them?

Tryanything1ceXX 44M/39F

7/13/2005 10:16 pm

Hey baby wanna hook up? LOL

rm_WhoMeWithU2 59M

7/13/2005 10:20 pm

I would like to get any response at all! Even if it is NO I would like to know why or what I am doing wrong - so no I don't think it is wrong to relpy in the negative, but that is just me...

maninblack196002 56M

7/14/2005 1:47 am

Not mean at all Lilith, I mean your profile is there to be read, and it only takes a second to read. I do share your philosophy about freinds also. it just seems that friendship and commonality make EVERYTHING more enjoyable. AND, I'd like to say, there's a lot more to you than just a "nice rack". A truly lovely lady, glad I had the chance to get to meet you the other night.

danae03 32F

7/14/2005 10:30 am

Well hun I liked your boobies...think I can see them again?..maybe?..hehe

~* I think we should plan something for this wknd...ya'll can see my wax job..LMAO

xoxo {=}

rm_Catharsis32 44M

7/14/2005 8:42 pm

The negative response you give is not without reason. They do not take the time to read (if they can read) so you should not concern yourself with if it is mean. They are asking for it.

DirtyLilSecret61 55F

7/19/2005 8:54 pm

I think you should congratulation them on being this week's poster child for Mandatory Sterilization ... then ask for their address to send them their prize, and see what kinda response you get.

Oh and I think posting the ones that find 'this week's winners' in a blog is a great deterrent, if not damn fun for the rest of us.


DirtyLilSecret61 55F

7/19/2005 8:54 pm

Oooo I'll try to be more awake next time and use real English when I type a comment.

rm_Lilith4711 40F
24 posts
7/19/2005 9:15 pm

It's ok DirtyLil, you're allowed to make up a word now and then. You don't try to recreate the English language on a regular

crankyourwagon 45M

7/19/2005 10:16 pm

Guys need to know how else will we learn. Feedback is good even if it isn't what we want to hear. Not that I would really say nice tits lets doit.

rm_major259 50M
101 posts
7/19/2005 10:28 pm

You can't help but attract the flies as well as the bees with honey.

Editing won't help, they're not reading the profile.

rm_major259 50M
101 posts
7/19/2005 10:30 pm

As for the email responses, send em.

rm_Lilith4711 40F
24 posts
7/19/2005 11:08 pm

Well, I don't know if sending out "No random guy, I'm not going to bring all my friends to your house for an orgy" emails helps anything, or makes them less likely to do it to another poor woman...but it sure feels good to hit that send button!

NoRegret5 46M
10 posts
7/19/2005 11:39 pm

You have your rights to call them morons. I guess it's quite rude for them to do that. First and foremost...respect. One should respect the others first no matter what the topic is. After all this is a friendly site, right. Well, it takes two to tango, so respect first before we tango. Anyway, we have to expect negative response to our blog too, so just ignore the negative ones, OK. Good Luck.

Necroambulant 38M
1 post
8/4/2005 10:35 pm

Personally I figure that you have every right to refer to anyone you'd like as being a's all a matter of perspective. If you perceive them as being functionally retarded, then you are morally obligated to share this vital information with them. lol
Ok, maybe that's a bit much...but I've always felt that it was my responsibility to counteract all of those people who don't share what they think for fear of someone being hurt. Since when did human beings become so damned sensitive that they are entirely incapable of handling a little bit of harsh criticism or sarcasm? Well, that's my pointless response...

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