July 3rd Thoughts (for the ladies)  

rm_LexGG 41M
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7/3/2006 7:14 am

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July 3rd Thoughts (for the ladies)

I am beginning to contemplate my involvement here on this site. Any positive words out there? I personally have found it much easier to meet someone by just going out. The problem with that is that there is not much pre-screening of personality before you become financially invested (and it takes time). Obviously the pre-screening of physical appearance is an advantage. The disproportionate number of males here on this site just is a bit (well the same if you go anywhere else and the numbers are not favorable).

Should I add some better pictures? On a case by case situation I don’t mind sending them to interested parties. Maybe I will get my self verified status?.... I’m personally not into having all my pictures plastered over the internet. I mean why have aliases, etc. Otherwise people would use there real names, etc. It’s about a level of discreetness and confidentiality.

1 More Day until some Fireworks!!!

rm_hotmamaNcols 39F
445 posts
7/3/2006 8:02 am

Hang in there! I've wondered why there is a 60 to 1 ratio of males to female on this site and I think I know why. In general, women are less receptive to the pleasures of sex and fear being labeled a whore in their communities. Me, I don't give a shit. I boldly post my face on my profile, daring someone to admit they saw me here.

You are right, there is less pre-screening in the real world than on this site. I've found you meet more people if you keep a blog active. You'd be amazed at how many friends ( and buddies) gravitate your way when you are just being yourself.

rm_LexGG replies on 7/5/2006 7:31 am:
Thank you for your encouragement. I do find the blogging as a nice way to express myself. I still wonder whether if this is the place to blog, or should I gravitate elsewhere... Thoughts?

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