When Does No, Not Mean No?  

rm_Ladyt53 64F
353 posts
4/25/2006 11:04 am

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3/30/2007 11:59 pm

When Does No, Not Mean No?

Is it because I have a profile listed out here?

Is it because you’ve taken the time to send me a message inviting me to experience your world?

Is it because you’ve spent $$$$ to give you access to contact others?

Or perhaps your head is just that large that you think it’s not possible for someone to tell you sorry not interested!

Whatever the case if you’ve invited someone and they tell you no then move on it’s as simple that, why would you belittle yourself by going into beg mode.

Oh you might not think that’s what you’re doing but believe me once someone has said no, and you feel it necessary to inquire into why they did, then you’re begging.

No explanation should be necessary. Why give that person the opportuniy to block your e-mails before you decide to move on?

This is way too surreptitious to be personal, so believe it, it's not you it's me!


rm_ohsolustful 58M
859 posts
4/25/2006 12:47 pm

OUCH, I feel like i walked in on a fight in a bar, and got blindsided by an airborn chair....After reading your post though, I have to agree, some people just don't seem to understand the word at all...best wishes, and good luck to ya..............

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