Things that make you go hmmmmmmm!  

rm_Ladyt53 64F
353 posts
3/1/2006 10:36 am

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3/29/2006 2:34 pm

Things that make you go hmmmmmmm!


Since joining AdultFriendFinder I’ve had the distinct pleasure of communicating with some very interesting people and some that were not so interesting, but the good ones out weighed the bad that’s why I continue to come back.

There is one thing that constantly happens to me here and I have to ask is this standard or is there something grossly wrong with me? Since I’m not a paying member I’m only allowed certain privileges. Of course I’m allowed to blog or to go trolling in the chat rooms, and being female I can search a limited amount of profiles, however, I cannot initiate dialogue except to send winks so the only opportunity I have at communicating is when someone sends me an invite.

That’s what prompted these questions; someone sends you a message, you respond and the posts begin, that person ask to meet, you agree and shortly there after the person develops all sorts of personal problems…. lol from catching the flu, having surgical procedures done, or (good one) having an acute emergency at work. Now I don’t knock that one because in my field of work there is always an off chance that I will be given a project that requires my immediate attention and hell that is my bacon so I’m not going to put that on the back burner to troop off on a date either. But I have to wonder isn’t 5 months a little extreme? Oh well!

Then come the people who want to discount your way of life, everything about them is so important yet your life is what minute? This brings to mind one man who wanted to meet me for the first time in a remote area out of fear of being seen by his significant other, this one didn’t take much effort; I only hope he’s not still there waiting for me to show up…lol I don’t take unnecessary risk either. There have been a few others as well like the ones who want to blow up my cell phone but will block they numbers from coming in, I guess no one ever told them that those calls cost $! I think one of the funniest experiences yet is the one man who told me his name was __________, and several days later forgot and gave me a different name, when I called him out on this he said he didn’t like giving his real name to people on the internet, yet he was expecting me to give him something a little more important than a name…SMDH while lol.

Oh well so much for having a good time...!

bustyandcuddly 43F

3/1/2006 11:26 am

My God,
sounds like you have found all the weirdo's!
Everybody I have met so far has been what they said they were but then I am very choosy with a who I decide to meet and if they seem even slightly strange or not genuine then I dont go there.
Im not for one minute assumming that you dont do this but this is what works for me.
Good luck in your search for fun times!


rm_Ladyt53 64F
122 posts
3/1/2006 8:38 pm

Hey thanks Busty

Yes there are some weirdo’s on this site as I’m sure there are on other sites as well, as for finding them I can’t quite take the credit for that, however I can’t stop them from buzzing me…lol.

I have met some very nice people out here, but there have been a few that I’ve communicated with that were suspect and will remain that way, as I am particularly selective of the people that I choose to associate with.


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