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rm_Ladyt53 63F
353 posts
12/8/2005 5:49 pm

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Special


Arrived for work before the sun was up, had a simple breakfast at my desk while scanning my schedule for the day, two meetings with conflicting times and a boat load of crappy stuff that I’ll try to put off until next year. Completed some reports that needed to get posted by the end of the week and basically shuffled papers until time for my first meeting.

The first meeting went off without any glitches, had to excuse myself a little early to beat it down to the next one; hoped that the second one would be equally as easy to get through. It was! A little past noon I was back at my desk ready to settle in to do as little as possible before clocking out for the day. My mind just isn’t on work today; so the sooner the day went by the better off I’d feel.

The red light on my phone was blinking double time must have gotten several calls while out of the office, where would we be without voicemail? Retrieved my messages and I learned that there was a package waiting for me at the Receptionist’s desk. Hopped the elevator and rode up two floors, and there at the desk sat a lone white box tied in multi-colored strings.

There was no card on the outside of the box, and it was too small to be flowers or at least the kind that normally come in boxes so I scooped it up and a fragrance that I am so familiar with seeped from within. Chocolate hmmmmm, but who knows me well enough to send me chocolates and in a box this size? I needed to see what was inside, so I took to the stairs and scaled down two at a time and practically ran to my office.

I cut the strings from the package and ripped off the lid, and there stood two-dozen beautiful chocolate covered strawberries in a ceramic flowerpot; along with the candied fruit was a lovely card with a message thanking me for a wonderful lunch.

spoldrtn812 51F  
1056 posts
12/9/2005 4:47 am

AWWWWWWWW HE HAD TO GET MAJOR POINTS FOR THAT ONE!!! THAT WAS SO SPECIAL!! HE SEEMS TO BE DOING ALL THE RIGHT THINGS!! YOU HAVE MY BLESSINGS LOL

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rm_Ladyt53 63F
122 posts
12/9/2005 3:35 pm

Spoldrtn812

It’s amazing that finally after a whole year of being on this site that I’ve met someone who’s actually respectable. I’ve had the experience of meeting some men, most whom thought it was okay to treat me like a common streetwalker, realizing that AdultFriendFinder is billed as being the World’s Largest Sex Website my expectations weren’t that great to begin with however, I wasn’t expecting to have gown men ask me to give them head in the car on a restaurant parking lot, nor did I intend to troop out to the nearest dilapidated motel for a getting to know you better quickie as they called them.

It’s true that because of my own circumstances I’m not looking for any long-term commitments, but it would be nice to get to know the person better without an ever-looming sexual obligation hanging over my head. It was my interest to meet someone whose situation was similar to my own and to become friends with benefits, however, what I’ve experienced in these meetings are men who want me to perform perverted sexual acts that they can’t get at home or feel that their wives/girlfriends are too precious to implement (yes this is what I’ve been told by many). So they come on-line with the hopes of meeting someone here who will carry out their wishes.

Perhaps if my profile indicated that I was interested in that sort of relationship I probably wouldn’t be so offended, but time and time again I keep getting these invites from men with ideas for all types of distorted acts, that they would probably be better off hiring someone to do or at least thoroughly reading the profiles before bothering to contact the person of their choice.

So if I seem a little excited at finally meeting a man who’s background, wishes and thoughts mirror my own it’s because I am. LOL hope I haven’t bored you to tears but I feel like a little girl with a brand new doll.


spoldrtn812 51F  
1056 posts
12/13/2005 8:45 am

Queen I have been here six years I have had euro men tell me they "never banged a blak bitch how bout it?" I have cursed out my fair share but I have also met some very distinguished men in my community here! I know the feeling of finding one that knows how to treat a woman that has pride and dignity in herself! That is the feeling I enjoy. I have tried to be as forthcoming as I can in my profile check it out. I still get the wrong sex, wrong race, wrong age, everything but what I want. but until that one signs on that day. I sign on and read what's going on in the world around me through blogland!

I think it is wonderful to find women as well who are positive and like minded who knows I may have an issue with my teenage daughter or a sister at work you may be able to let me vent about! I enjoy this site for the true adult interaction that takes place here! by all means check out my blog and my profile. I wish you peace and prosperity in all you do!!

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rm_Ladyt53 63F
122 posts
12/18/2005 4:24 pm

Hello my Sista,

I just finished reading your message and headed straight to your profile and of course I stayed long enough to read some of your other blogs. I must say that I truly admire your straight forwardness and honesty. I can’t see how anyone would make the mistake of thinking that you mean anything other then what is boldly stated in your profile.

Except there are as you mentioned the occasional fools who seem to believe with their self-righteous attitudes that all black women can be easily had and will try relentlessly to penetrate our worlds in the pursuit of a quick lay without the benefits of obligation.

As you may have guessed from my profile I am not in the position to be quite as insistent in my quest for suitors, as I am not readily available myself to take on any type of committed relationship, and while I have requested discretion on the part of becoming involved with someone it by no means gives anyone the right to believe that I’m accessible for their shortsighted, one night, no holds barred, fuck-a-thons. I guess the thing that really annoys me the most is that once I receive their response and respond back letting them know that I have no interest in they type of relationship, the pompous Asses will write back and want a detailed explanation as to why I’m unwilling to go along with their program.

I feel really lucky to have finally found someone whom is in tuned to my agenda and is willing to accept the limitations on my terms, but given the fact that this is a very new liaison; I can only wait to see what the future holds.

And yes, it is very stimulating to have someone who understands or at least remains open-minded about someone else’s choices.

It’s very nice communicating with you


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