Especially for the ladies  

rm_Ladyt53 63F
353 posts
2/27/2006 12:51 pm

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Especially for the ladies


I have to admit that I’ve been a skeptic most of my life, not one who views a glass as half empty, but the type who will check all the facts and figures before forging into the unknown. So I’m not a cynic but however, I keep my rose colored glasses hidden deep inside my purse.

Recently I found myself studying younger men. I don’t remember when I first started this; perhaps it began when I started communicating with a friend whom I’d met here on AdultFriendFinder. I thought to myself when he initially wrote me, who are you kidding and why are you even replying to this young man?

I can still remember the words that I used when I responded to his message; I asked him if possibly he’d made a mistake when he replied to my profile, I reminded him that I was nearly old enough to be his mother. His reply to me was that he was aware of my age and that I wasn’t his mom and yes he was very interested in meeting me. He went on to say that he had always been attracted to older women and he liked how I had expressed myself.

Following six months of communication I finally agreed to meet with him. After the first encounter I became somewhat regretful that I had waited so long. Surprisingly he turned out to be quite a prize. He’s intelligent, witty, and incredibly charming. Ladies this man is so PHINE that he could melt butter in your mouth, yet he has not one conceited bone in his body; he’s generous to a fault and a wonderful, caring, gentle man. I’ve spoken of him before here in my blogs, but that was prior to the knowledge that I have of him now.

I’m 19 years his senior, but he’s by no means a child, he’s managed to do things to my body and psyche that no other man has. I started out thinking I would be teaching him the art of making love to a woman, as it stands I was so wrong, I’ve done a lot of growing up and a heck of lot of learning over the last 3-weeks; I will never again underestimated the powers of youth again.

Just color me content!

Darkpassion 57F

2/27/2006 2:28 pm

You're so right. An ageist attitude can keep you from seer bliss. I have yet to experience this but I know exactly the young man who will teach me a thing or two. He's 21 yrs younger than me but has the wisdom and charm of ages. Have fun with your man and grow with each other.


rm_Ladyt53 63F
122 posts
3/1/2006 6:07 am

Thank you DP; glad to have the concurrence of someone whose contemplated the same. This event was slow in the making but I guess it true that all good things are worth waiting for.


Darkpassion 57F

3/3/2006 11:26 am

Lucky you to have had the experience. I have missed the first sailing but radio contact is still live, so there is hope of another sailing. I wont be worrying about age if there is a next time.
This can work the other way too. I have had a man who is 10yrs older contact me, he is proving to be quite a pleasant surprize.


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