What Makes a Woman Sexy?  

rm_Kissmystuff 61F
2665 posts
2/22/2006 5:14 pm

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What Makes a Woman Sexy?

ยง The question is mostly for the gentlemen.
Is it mainly the physical that you consider...the body that draws you in? Is that your first and foremost consideration...if so...when does appreciation of the other attributes come in?

Although I'm mainly asking the men...I'd also like to hear what other women think.


sexperienced4u2c 63F

2/22/2006 10:47 pm

The "eyes" have it for me (John). Liz says it's the smile and eye contact.

interested13563 53M
2557 posts
2/23/2006 10:29 am

For me it is the eyes and the smile!
If it is sweet, sensual, and pleasant,
it makes a world of difference.

mygmyg 59M

2/23/2006 8:11 pm

KMS, 1st and foremost, it was your eyes that captivated this yearning/burning man!

As to the question, initially it will be physical, whether it be legs, the way the muscles Flex and move as you walk, the way your body glides with each step, like your walking on air, the way your clothing hugs every curve of your bottom, the way your bottom pulses with my heart from side to side, with each step, Oh to walk beside you and gently rest my large hand across you, and feel the movement of your wonderful bottom(okay, I'll settle for resting my hand just at your hips, it is almost as good as being THERE!!!).

KMS, you know I could go on forever about the WONDERS of the female body, But somewhere along the road of life, I have become quite allured with your minds, what brightens your eyes with passion when you speak, flushes your cheeks, and sets your eyes aglow...this can only be realized by sitting patiently and talking, letting conversation be the seducer, of you and me. The marvelous changes in your appearance, the volume and tone fluctuations in your voice, the way you touch your lip, or lower an eyelid, to look just a certain way,before responding strikes me like an ANVIL, and causes my mind to stammer and try to memorize that few seconds, for I was drawn to YOU, your mind, your thought of that moment, I fell into the looking glass of YOU, and those moments are more sexy than the sight of you, because they are fleeting, gone in seconds, but fleeting flashes of YOU, that I cherish and am Haunted by in my fantasies.

KMS,I can certainly watch/see/leer at your form and features from a distance, but the moments truly spent with you, when you revealed the source of your allure and sexiness in a simple exchange of thoughts and words, will warm me not only physically, but send my mind a gyrating, in ecstacy in the memories of YOU!!

Now how about an eyebrow raise, and a com hither nod !!!

rm_Kissmystuff 61F
1435 posts
2/25/2006 10:44 am


Humm...I knew it...the first time I encountered you! You're a silver tongued devil in disguise. A woman had better watch out or she'll find you've stolen her heart before she knows it.


rm_Kissmystuff 61F
1435 posts
2/25/2006 10:54 am



I think I'd have to agree with all three of you...the eyes...the soul showing through and that smile. But I want to also add...that when someone begins to speak...the mind behind the words is probably even more important. The way a person moves...with confidence...grace is an additional turn on for me.


interested13563 53M
2557 posts
2/27/2006 4:30 pm

Indeed, I agree!!!!

funversation 59M

3/2/2006 5:51 pm

The eyes are the lead in, but conversation sprinkled with wit is the sure hook that makes the connection.

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