Just Because I don't Respond...  

rm_Kissmystuff 61F
2665 posts
6/19/2006 10:33 am

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Just Because I don't Respond...

Ok..it's true. I don't respond to many emails I get. Most likely this will continue. Doesn't necessarily mean there's anything wrong you gentlemen. But then again..it might. If you've bothered to read my profile..which most of you obviously haven't..or if you have..you've been very selective in what you see..you'd know that I prefer someone to approach me like the lady I am.

Just because I choose to reject the double standard..still so prevalent in our society..doesn't mean you can say rude and tasteless things to me. I'm not a whore..any more than you are..because I choose to participate in this site.

The men I do respond to..are the ones who approach me with some intelligence and sensitivity..and who are able to demonstrate that they cared enough to actually read what is in my profile. They are also the one's who don't jump to conclusions because of my presence here.

Something I've voiced in my blogs before is..if your email includes an unsolicited picture of your dick..you will not get a response. If your email talks about satisfying me sexually..before we've even said hello..you will not get a response.

For me..this site gives an opportunity to express myself in many ways..not just the erotic..sensual..and sexual. But when I do choose to express those elements of my being..I expect to be able to do so..without some troglodite..assuming the worst.

AdultFriendFinder + Eroticism + Sensuality + Sexuality DOES NOT = WHORE! And if you can't think beyond your groin..well then..you're shit out of luck..not only with me..but a good many women on this site.


PineyFolks 58M/59F

6/19/2006 11:08 am

That was put very well. Thank you.


8321 posts
6/19/2006 11:12 am

It's good you finally spoke up.

This seems to have been building for a long time.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

VCF1962 105F

6/19/2006 11:47 am

Kiss - you're damned if you do and damned if you don't (see my blog). I used quick response the other day for some cretin, his message was so badly written that I could hardly understand it - no full stops or paragraphs for a start - and he was skinny (not my taste) so I used a quick response. He then wrote a rude message back saying that I hadn't even spent the time to write a response. I wrote back that he was lucky to get one at all.

He's been blocked and blogged now !!!

They just don't get it and they expect us to meet them.


It does the intelligent guys here a disservice.

Mistress Innuendo
Taking what you say and turning it into something naughty !!

rm_jrdaddy101 60M

6/19/2006 1:55 pm

There are some of us on this site that can actually put thoughts and sentences together. Those men/women that can't are so obvious by their juvenile thoughts and rants.
I wish AdultFriendFinder had an intelligence test before people were allowed to respond to profiles or blogs. If you don't pass then you have to take remedial classes until you are able to make sense.
Kiss you and VCF could be judges as to who can/can't respond. You get my vote!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lovin_U_4_Fun 54F

6/19/2006 7:57 pm

I would love to have this blog posted on the home page, or made to be mandatory reading before one is allowed to register!

Yes, I do hope to find someone to play with; a passionate, adventurous, playful, amusing someone. Yet, I am still a lady. Yes, I am a woman who is comfortable being sexual and sensuous with the right man. Yes, I may say something raunchy in private, yet I'm still a lady.

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
6/19/2006 10:39 pm


Good call on the double standard, my compliments.

Although it is not as bad as the standard that the ladies are held to (if she's open about her sexuality, she's a slut; if not, she's a prude), there is a bit of a standard for men here as well.

If we are a bit racy with our profile, we are thought of as 'just thinking with the little head'. If we don't go that route, then people question why you are here. Trying to maintain a balance is the key, but it is tough at times.

I came on this site looking to make friends. But a lot of times, I've been accused of 'being on the make' or something along those lines. Yes, I am in an open relationship with my lady, but that doesn't mean that a lady from this site & I cannot just be friends.

Sorry, didn't mean to ramble or rant, but you've hit upon something with this post....great job, as usual.

NG61...fading back into the shadows...

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