He asked me....is it appropriate to ever fake an orgasm??  

rm_Kissmystuff 61F
2665 posts
10/31/2005 12:36 pm

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He asked me....is it appropriate to ever fake an orgasm??

This was my response...

The reasons a woman would fake it...

1. Build up a man's ego
2. Build up her own ego
3. Just wants it to be over and done with
4. Thinks she has to have an orgasm every time
5. A combination of the four previous reasons.


Now...there may be more reasons that other women can come up with...but I think those would be the main ones.

When I was younger and not so knowing about the way of things...there were a few times that I faked it. Not something I'd do any more.

I don't feel the need to build a man's ego in that way...he needs to do a good job. If he doesn't I will let him know...gently.

I don't need to fake it to feel sexy and sensuous...so my ego is fine in that respect.

If I want it to be over and done with, then he's obviously not doing a good job...or something else is wrong...time to let him know..perhaps give some gentle guidance...or do what's necessary to resolve the problem.

While it's nice to have an orgasm every time...many women don't need it...and still find pleasure. I'm not going to pretend...that it's a mind blowing...toe curling event...if it's not. Sometimes the gentle relaxed pleasure is fine with me. Then plenty of cuddling and sweet talk. It's more important to me that a man be a lover...not a stud. And I would hope that any man would appreciate a real woman...who's warm and honestly responsive...as opposed to a make believe... plastic...pretender. To me..."faking it" is demeaning to both parties.


Kiss


LickYourYoni 67M
470 posts
12/9/2005 8:38 pm

thank you, for being and being you.


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