HOW DO YOU KEEP THE FLAME BURNING"  

rm_Kissmystuff 61F
2665 posts
12/8/2005 11:39 am

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HOW DO YOU KEEP THE FLAME BURNING"

Not long ago someone asked the question..."What do you do to keep the flame burning" This was my response...not a poem really....just some thoughts I have. Thought I'd share them with you.

"Show an interest in your man's work and any outside interest he might like to share. I'll learn about baseball for that man who may be interested in baseball...so I can discuss the games with him.

Do the "little things" that show appreciation. It's still important to flirt with your man...let him know you find him attractive.

I think it's important to take care of myself...proper nutrition...excersise...to look good. No curlers in bed or gop on the face. And I sleep in the nude. I'll make sure he leaves home with me looking attractive...so he wants to come back to me at night.

A special card that I make...with a poem I write just for him...insert it in his briefcase...inviting him to a special night out or...just because I want to bring a smile to his face.

I also make it a point to read...and stay informed so I'm able to have intelligent conversation. I don't watch a lot of TV.

I enjoy preparing a special meal...but to me...that special meal is more than just the cooking and serviing. (I work at home and am pretty much my own boss...so I can take a day off). If he's worked all day...I'll meet him at the door with a cool drink...if its a hot day. If it's winter...the drink might be hot apple cider with cinnamon and a shot of brandy. I'll help him with his coat and boots. And in whatever the weather...have slippers waiting for him. I want him to be relaxed...so I've prepared a nice hot bath for him...with aroma therapy oils...candles...soft music. A big fluffy towel to rub him dry and help the circulation. Then a message to further loosen those tense muscles.

The meal...already prepared and on the plates...kept warm...the salads...taken... cool and crisp from the refrigerator...the chilled wine...just right. 2 place settings on the small table in the bedroom...more candles...soft music and.......mmmmm...well...sometimes we didn't quite make it to the end of the meal. No...this didn't happen every day...but once or twice a month. And interestingly and pleasantly enough...I found that he was willing to do those same kind of things for me.

That flame burned pretty hot!"

What do YOU do to keep that flame burning??



Kiss


LickYourYoni 67M
465 posts
12/8/2005 7:48 pm

on her birthday,
i would bring her a bouquet
take her to a candlelit dinner
and later to this decadent dessert place
and then to my home...
i offer the flokati, for her lounging pleasure,
in front of the fireplace, which i have just lit.
'would you care for a drink?'
a press of the remote~an iPod playlist begins
the music is mezmerizing, exotic.
i take one of her feet in my hands,
my fingers pulsing in rhythm
with the sensuous music caressing our ears.
i watch her adjust the pillows and lie back.
...


rm_Kissmystuff 61F
1435 posts
12/8/2005 11:03 pm

    Quoting LickYourYoni:
    on her birthday,
    i would bring her a bouquet
    take her to a candlelit dinner
    and later to this decadent dessert place
    and then to my home...
    i offer the flokati, for her lounging pleasure,
    in front of the fireplace, which i have just lit.
    'would you care for a drink?'
    a press of the remote~an iPod playlist begins
    the music is mezmerizing, exotic.
    i take one of her feet in my hands,
    my fingers pulsing in rhythm
    with the sensuous music caressing our ears.
    i watch her adjust the pillows and lie back.
    ...
She smiles and inhales the fragrance of the bouquet..purrs with pleasure as she tastes the just right seafood dinner and the rich dark chocolat of the desert.

The colors of the flokati..whether subtle or brilliant..the crackling fire..add to the exotic aura of the setting.

'Yes..I would like a drink please..you decide..surprise me'

The music is almost other worldly. She imagines ancient temples.. veiled dancers..the singing of their finger symbols.

A foot massage..how luxurious..just the thing to help one relax.

A deep sigh..as she lays back among the soft..fragrant pillows.

What a wonderful evening.

Kiss


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