It's MY Blog After All...  

rm_KarmoHunny 54F
256 posts
7/14/2006 2:14 pm

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8/23/2006 9:47 pm

It's MY Blog After All...

I've recently read a post where the author stated that this is a sex site (no shit Sherlock!) and the blogs should be about sex. If we want to blog about something other than sex, we should go somewhere else.

Where is it written that the blogs have to be only about sex? In my opinion, if the only thing the blogs had to offer was sex, then the people would appear one-dimensional. It would be easy to write on a daily basis that I got banged. After awhile, who would give a shit? (I would bore my damn self!) People are more than just sexual beings. They're creative, intelligent, political, humorous, loving, etc. Those things show up in the blogs and make them more interesting to read.

Besides, I pay my monthly subscription fee and will blog about what I want. As long as it isn't insulting, scamming, fake, and doesn't have anything to do with bestiality or pedophilia.

So, if my blog isn't raunchy or risque' enough for you, please don't read it. You won't hurt my feelings. It's MY blog after all.



glidecc 41M  
1184 posts
7/14/2006 4:30 pm

lol, there are a few sex journals that I like to read. Most of them get boring to be honest though.

I enjoy sex as much as anyone but I'd much rather be doing it than reading about it.


rm_KarmoHunny replies on 7/14/2006 5:41 pm:
There's nothing wrong with enjoying sex blogs. But for me, too much of it is just like having the same thing for dinner over and over, day in and day out. It gets boring. Thanks for your response!

SingleWarrior 52M

7/14/2006 7:38 pm

O'm gonna guess that person is a standard as well

I agree with ya, hun. You write what you want to write, and I'll read


rm_KarmoHunny replies on 7/14/2006 8:55 pm:
Hi Warrior,

I'll try and keep it interesting. It's not easy knowing what to blog about. Thanks for your post, sugar!

Hugs

SingleWarrior 52M

7/14/2006 8:16 pm

Dag nab Ferengi key board

"O'm" is not slang It "I'm" in hidden code


rm_KarmoHunny replies on 7/14/2006 8:55 pm:
You seem to have more problems with your keyboard...LOL!

FrankPicasso 52M

7/14/2006 9:36 pm

Hi, KarmoHunny. I guess the term, "AdultFriendFinder" says it all. It's nice to find friends, who are adults. Glad you're keepin' it real. Take care, and have yourself a great weekend.


rm_KarmoHunny replies on 7/14/2006 10:49 pm:
I agree with you about adult friends. Thanks for stopping by!

Hugs Sweetie!

rm_KarmoHunny replies on 7/14/2006 10:49 pm:
I agree with you about adult friends. Thanks for stopping by!

Hugs Sweetie!

adbacula 36M

7/15/2006 12:39 am

Hi KarmoHunny,

I couldn't agree more. If they just want sex, all they need is a profile search. Why blog at all?

I thought blogging was about speaking our minds, sharing our beliefs, our stories, getting to know one another, just have fun, or whatever else you can think of! We're human. We have a variety of emotions and interests. Not just lust.

But, then again, he was just "speaking his mind"... heh. When people say stuff like that, I just think, "Phew. There's another blogger I don't need to visit!" There's so many good blog's to choose from. It's like a filter.

Cheers,
addy


rm_KarmoHunny replies on 7/15/2006 11:44 am:
Hi Addy,

I agree with you about blogging. I thought the same thing when I started my blog. I didn't read any rules saying that the blogs needed to contain only sexual content. Plus, if all the blogs contained sex, we'd miss out on who the people are who write them. There is such a great variety of blogs to read. Way too many to just write about sex.

Peace

redswallow777 48M
6810 posts
7/16/2006 9:16 am

You were of course spot on with this post, Karmo. Blogging and life would be boring if sex was the only thing on the menu.

Blog on.


rm_KarmoHunny replies on 7/16/2006 10:51 am:
Hi Red,

I heartily agree with you! Thanks for stopping by my blog, hun!

Peace

rm_smosmof2 67M
3240 posts
7/16/2006 4:55 pm

At least this poster made their statements on their own blog, and didn't try to force it upon anyone else.

This way we can ignore them and let them wank themselves to death in oblivion.....


rm_KarmoHunny replies on 7/16/2006 6:50 pm:
That's true! Let him wank away!...LOL! Thanks for stopping by my blog.

LadySunrise 33F  
2432 posts
7/17/2006 8:41 am

you know you can write what ever you want!!!!

some people are idiots...they think people are walking sex machines....and they wonder why its so hard to get some action!!!

great post btw

live more, laugh often, love much


rm_KarmoHunny replies on 7/17/2006 7:13 pm:
Hi LadySunrise,

Thanks for visiting my blog! You are so right about some people. They eat, drink and breathe sex. Nothing wrong with that unless you try and force it on others who are not on the same wavelength. Also, thanks for the compliment on the post. I really appreciate it!

Hugs

MasterWolfsahdo 48M
44 posts
7/17/2006 1:31 pm

in my humble opinion, part of the reason i read blogs is to learn more about the person, not what position they screwed in last

i want to know about you, not your private parts

steps off the soap box


rm_KarmoHunny replies on 7/17/2006 7:18 pm:
Hi MasterWolf,

I heartily agree with you! Unfortunately, some people don't care to know anything about who they're interacting with. They just want to get laid. There's something very primal about that. Oh well, to each his own. Thanks for stopping by Sweetie!

Hugs

florallei 99F

7/18/2006 8:07 am

Hi Sweetie,

Like your boldness and the points are well taken. I probably only have written a handful of sex stories on mine and the rest are about my personal triumphs in life and hopefully by sharing it, can help even just one person.
I know it can touch people for I have recieved emails to thank me and how it has given them the courage to look inside themselves.
TY for sharing this with us.
flo


rm_KarmoHunny replies on 7/18/2006 5:30 pm:
Hi Flo,

Thanks for stopping by my blog. I really appreciate it! We have so much more to offer our fellow human being besides just sex. Don't get me wrong, sharing sex is great too. We just need a bit more to than that. It wonderful that you are able to share a part of yourself with others. I have had the opportunity to read your blog and found it to be very touching. That's just one facet of who you are. Thank you for sharing yourself with us.

Hugs

howaboutahuck 65M
489 posts
7/19/2006 5:28 am

Hi, Karmo
He reminds me of a women that was sitting in front of me at a hockey game. I was there with some friends from work having a great time cheering for the Black Hawks and she turn around and tells me to be quiet, at a hockey game. I politely informed her that this was my space and I could make as much noise in my space as I liked and if she wanted quiet she should try a movie or the library. some people just can't see outside the box.

XXXOOOXXX


rm_KarmoHunny replies on 7/20/2006 6:13 pm:
Hi Huck,

That woman had a lot of nerve! She was probably lucky that she didn't get cussed out! That reminds me of a time I was at a restaurant with some friends. There was a guy sitting close to us, he wanted us to be quiet. When we didn't do it, he left in a huff saying he had come there to be alone. Duh! Who goes to a restaurant to be alone? Some people are just weird!

Thanks for stopping by my blog, Hunny!

tiyannah 47T

7/19/2006 3:34 pm

LOL I AGREE TOTALLY SIS,SEX IS GREAT AND AT TIMES I QUESTION IF I SHOULD BE ON HERE ONLY WHEN I HAVE A DIRTY MIND......BUT I HAVE GAINED NEW BUDDIES ON AdultFriendFinder AND THEY ARE REALLY GOOD LISTENERS WHO GIVE ME HELLA GOOD ADVICE....YOU ARE ONE OF MY GOOD LISTENERS...WHO ACTUALLY CARE ENOUGH TO GIVE WHOLE HEARTED ADVICE......SO THANK-YOU IF I HAV`NT ALREADY... KEEP DOIN WHAT YOUR DOIN BABY........TIYANNAH


rm_KarmoHunny replies on 7/20/2006 6:46 pm:
Oooooh, thanks so much sista girl! I love hearing from you and hope to maybe meet you one day. I think if we lived closer together, we'd be great friends! But, I'll have to settle for being your online friend for now. Sometimes, I question myself too about being on AdultFriendFinder. But like you, I've "met" some very nice people on here. And they're not only interested in sex. Don't get me wrong, sex is great but it isn't everything.

Thank you so much for your continued support. It means a lot to me!

Hugs Hunny!

SensuDom 56M  
35 posts
7/23/2006 7:00 pm

Not a problem for me. For some people, sex is all they're about, so for them, a blog without sex is pointless, no doubt whether it is on a sex web-site or anywhere else. You keep saying what you have to say and ignore ignorant people. Good luck and be well.


rm_KarmoHunny replies on 7/24/2006 4:03 pm:
Welcome to my blog! Thanks for the encouragement and, your point of view. It makes a lot of sense to me!

Peace

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