The Tenderness  

rm_Kalhoun4u 56M
14 posts
8/30/2006 3:12 pm

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The Tenderness

Not a macho guy thing to say but...

One thing I do miss since I do not have a Significant Other or any other Other for that matter, is the tenderness of a woman. I have big, sometimes rough(calloused not mean), hands but I do so enjoy running them over my lady's face or shoulders or back or tummy or especially her breasts. To feel her get goosebumps and move in closer to me so I can continue is a good moment. Then those times when I am standing behind her holding her and lightly kissing and blowing on the back of her neck. She trys to turn but I hold her steady and continue until she laughs and squirms, and I finally let her turn to face me. The kiss that follows is always so passionate.

rm_aWench4U 61M/61F
741 posts
8/30/2006 3:52 pm

I can SO relate to what you said here! I spent most of yesterday mourning the lack of the touch of my lover. Not the sex part, although I certainly miss that too! But the someone to curl up with on the sofa, spoon with and talk to in bed, and most of all, to wake up early and watch him sleeping as the sun peaks through the blinds on the window. I realized I want a relationship, not just sex, and I'm pretty sure this is NOT the place to find it.

Remember the past but do not dwell there.
Face the future where all our hopes stand.


rm_Kalhoun4u 56M
13 posts
8/31/2006 6:00 am

Thank you ~myst~. Cute handle by the way.

rm_Kalhoun4u 56M
13 posts
8/31/2006 6:07 am

Hi, AngelOrNot4U, oh a morning person, very nice especially on weekends.

This may not be the place to find a relationship but I have found that the other "normal" or popular or mainstream dating sites are not much good either. Lots and lots of winks and emails received and dates that I went on but nothing to write home about, let alone take home.

So I do not expect too much from here but you just never know. Heck I do not think anyone has even looked at my profile let alone responded. But I have chatted with some nice people here in the blogs and in a couple of the groups so that is not too bad at all.

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