Cock size and technique  

rm_KF_TwoFer 56M/48F
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11/16/2005 6:32 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Cock size and technique


Ok, so I'm not one of those women who obsesses about her own breast size much less how tight or not tight she is. So the whole cock size obsession by men (and even some women) escapes me. I mean if you truely have a miniscule cock, then use a dildo or your fingers. (I always say God invented fingers for a reason).

If a man doesn't know how to move his pelvis in a sensous and effective manner, then his cock size really isn't going to help. And those few gents who have a truely giant cock....many will admit to having trouble during intercourse because there's only so far the cervix will move up. Besides, a small cock will fit in a woman's mouth soooo nicely....sigh.

So onto technique. There's the technique of "saving the best for last' - definetely not my favorite. Oftentimes the 'best' tends to be just a souped up version of the snail's pace.

There's the technique of 'act like a vibrator' where the gent tries to drill his way into a pussy at breakneck speed, frantically, with no erotic thrusts, pullbacks...just in in in. It makes me want to tell him to calm down and enjoy the adventure !

The "oh my God I don't want to hurt her" is sweet but unnecessary if you spend a few moments communicating with your partner and watching her face. Most ladies who don't have chronic pain with intercourse will distend and lengthen in the vagina during caring and sensitive foreplay. You can easily check this with a finger. If the lady keeps grinding against you and bringing her hips up while you're being 'gentle' then she's trying to tell you to let it all out and fuck her!

I shouldn't lay all the blame on the gents. Good sex is a dance with partners who know how to feel what pace each other prefers. If a lady truely just lies there like a cold fish (for whatever reason...upbringing, fear, shyness, etc) then her partner can only guess at what would feel good to her.

But a man in motion is a truely beautiful thing to feel and watch. He is in tune with his own desires, in tune with how his lady is moving with him. He sweats, he moans, he is a cultured panther in the dark. Hail to the sensous man !

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