Day 11 - What would you do  

rm_JohnMacLaine 50M
454 posts
2/11/2006 8:54 pm

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Day 11 - What would you do

Day 11, still not smoking and it is getting easier every day. Played poker with some of my co-workers this evening and did not crave a cigarette the entire evening. I may be getting over the hump, so to speak. I will continue to keep you updated.

Now for the subject of my post - "What would you do?" - this post is in response to a post made by greeneyesatl05, called Sex and Marriage, she posed the question to the married members - if they are still having sex with their spouses, what brought them to this site?

Since I have been on the other side of the coin on this issue, I have my own question regarding this...

If your spouse found out about your infedelity, and they still wanted you to try and work the marriage out, would you, or would you give up and divorce? I have always wondered why my lover did what she did, and if it is something you would do. Would you sacrifice the passion and excitement you have now with your lover, in order to save your marriage for the good of the family? for those members out there that are involved with other married people, what would you do if BOTH spouses found out? I know this is a question you really never wanted to answer, but since it happened in my situation, I am curious about the answer some of you will give...


"I can retain neither respect or affection for a government which has been moving from wrong to wrong in order to defend its own immorality" Mahatma Ghandi

caressmewell 53F

2/14/2006 11:04 pm

I have to agree with Sexyfit.

Great job on the not smoking..keep up the good work!

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
2/15/2006 4:03 am

Congrats on Day 11!!!

I would give your lover a second chance....

Purry {=}


PailsDiverHonks 55F

2/25/2006 7:59 pm

Sorry, I have been so distant from blogging I missed this.

Very tough question and I don’t know how to answer it. At least not now.

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