Newbie ...  

rm_Jaz_Kev01 61F
5 posts
1/22/2006 5:33 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Newbie ...

Oh, hi. Yes, I am the newbie. I read blogs all the time, give my thoughts and leave. So, now I thought I would try one out myself.

I ramble a lot but I promise I will find some "good things" to write and respond to. This being my first, I just want to ask a question of all you AdultFriendFinder'ers.

Why can't people just be who they are, do what they wish in the sexual department) without feeling scared, guilty, or feeling like they will be shunned by society?

Your thoughts could help tremendously.

AltumHunksUnite 53M

1/22/2006 9:00 am

First, welcome to Blogville.

Second, I think people hold back because they're afraid that their partner might think it's strange and unusual. So far, I believe the folks who hang out here are fairly open with what they want sexually. For the most part with this site in particular, the issues with honesty haven't been with what they want sexually, rather it has been about things like men opening up profiles and masquerading as women, or someone who is married or otherwise attached marking themselves down as "single and available". Heck, some would even say that my main pic is dishonest because it was taken over a year ago and I've gained about 15 pounds since then.

Let me drive. I like the view

rbnf440 55M

1/22/2006 9:49 am

Hi -
I had to think about this one...
I think what we now do sexually is LESS important to society (unless it involves children or minors)than ever before.
I think it's less judgemental.
I think if EVERYBODY was worried about being shunned by society for our sexual interests...we'd all be too AFRAID to be on a site like AdultFriendFinder.

rm_Jaz_Kev01 61F
11 posts
1/22/2006 11:16 am

rbnf440 - Perhaps you are right ... our society is less critical than ever before. I don't see AdultFriendFinder being a factor. Being on this site is still in hiding as you are virtual versus real and our handles don't really say who we are. Or am I being overly sensitive?

Cleavis - your pic shows you as a handsome man. Even with 15 lbs I can see the charm. I love the blogging and thanks for the welcome.

a_poetman 45M

1/22/2006 2:08 pm

As Cleavis has beat me to it again...LOL...

Welcome, and come check out Tampa Area Sex Assoc. We are all a little more ourselves there than anywhere else...

Hope you have fun!

geespotlctrr 55M
1 post
1/25/2006 2:49 am

The only problem hear is that (as you have mentioned) on line people tend to be who they WANT to be and not necessaraly who they realy are? I have been looking for a while and it seams the women have no problem finding what they need hear. Unfortunatly as anywear ells the men have to wait untill they are chosen. Averag 45 yr old males who's wifes have lost the interest in frequent sex now have very few options for discrete encounters. What do we do? Divorce after 18 years is costly and with children becomes very complicated for them. So i search hear for over several months only to find that an occasional interest is shown. Never connected. Maybe Blogs are the way to hear others coments and suggestions? Everyones comments are real hear.

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