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Is This Thing On?
Is This Thing On?
I'm fairly new to this whole 'blogging' phenomenon, so bear with me. I'm a bit frustrated today and I'll tell you why...
I've been a member for about two weeks, but still no concrete responses. Sure, I've had a few winks from people 100+ miles away and a few women who try and get me to sign up for another site, but where are the 'real' people at?
I guess it all works out to supply and demand. I don't know the exact figures, but women are in demand on the site probably at a 3 to 1 ratio of any other classification. Why? First you probably have more guys than gals in the first place, then you have another significant amount of couples who are only looking for female. It's almost like a curse to be a single male!
So no matter how witty I try to be, there's probably three other guys who came up with the same one-liner for the subject heading of an e-mail to that hottie who lives only 14 miles from where I'm searching. Then you have to factor in the women that are frustrated by the idiot guys who can only muster together a few poorly punctuated sentences in their e-mails which always end in 'let's fuck'. By the time my message makes it there, she's tired and wants to go to bed, and if she does decide to look at mine, she looks at the less-than-creative subject title and deletes my message, regardless of what poetry may be contained in the body of the message.
Then I get the shaft on the age requirement. I'm 23, which is not THAT young, and I consider myself a bit ahead of my age in the maturity sector. But no matter, as long as they see the red X in the age check box, they look the other way. Hell, even the women younger than me are looking for an older guy!
Maybe my profile is lacking in some way? Who knows. When you add all of those previous things up, it's hard to be optimistic. But I'm not mad. I like a challenge. I may have to be patient, but hopefully when I do find a match, she or they will be well worth the wait!
6/5/2006 1:20 pm
Welcome to the blogs! I doubt your profile is lacking....although I haven't seen it. Just get to know people here on the blogs...it is usually the best way. Good luck. |