Oh...this is just a silly soap opera  

rm_James20910 52M
182 posts
1/2/2006 11:16 am

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Oh...this is just a silly soap opera

OK...I've made the decision.

While I'm very flattered by my friend's proposition, I'm going to have to pass. It would just complicate to many aspects that don't need to be complicated. I want to be free to pursue a meaningful relationship and not have to conceal any aspect of my life. Making periodic nookie runs to NY to boink some old friends just doesn't have the appeal it did when I was younger.

They'll understand.

'Ya know...if it had been just a simple boink, I might have actually jumped and enjoyed. But it would still have felt a little incestuous. Their goal just takes that incestuous aspect to level that's beyond my comfort level.

I'm such a goober sometimes.


rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
1/2/2006 1:10 pm

I'd like to use "goober" in a future posting. Keep it simple as far as sex goes...


rm_RemBase 49F
15 posts
1/2/2006 4:02 pm

Oh yeah - further commentary on this aspect of it...

What makes you assume you'd have to hide such a generous act from a woman with whom you become involved?

-R


FeistySyn 52F

1/2/2006 8:08 pm

*simple boinking available here in AZ* ... lol...

Apparently the depth of depravity here is bottomless... don't you feel right at home?
~~~~~


rm_James20910 52M
316 posts
1/2/2006 11:10 pm

Rem,

I have to think about a real answer to your question. And it puts it back on the table.

You are right in some of your question.

Maybe I need to think about it more?


rm_RemBase 49F
15 posts
1/3/2006 5:24 pm

Well, there ARE numerous aspects to the donation situation, as I mentioned in the other thread...it's not exactly the kind of thing one should decide in a matter of hours, if given it real and proper thought, unless it's something you're just morally opposed to, which some folks are.

I'm sure they have reservations about it, or it wouldn't have taken them years to get to the point of asking...maybe a special trip to discuss it with them in depth, and help each other work out the concerns you have - it may still result in the same answer, but at least you'll have given it the consideration it deserves and let them know, as dear friends, that you're not taking it lightly.

On the flip side, someone you MAY want to consider discussing it with is your daughter.

-R


rm_James20910 52M
316 posts
1/4/2006 3:05 pm

    Quoting rm_RemBase:
    Well, there ARE numerous aspects to the donation situation, as I mentioned in the other thread...it's not exactly the kind of thing one should decide in a matter of hours, if given it real and proper thought, unless it's something you're just morally opposed to, which some folks are.

    I'm sure they have reservations about it, or it wouldn't have taken them years to get to the point of asking...maybe a special trip to discuss it with them in depth, and help each other work out the concerns you have - it may still result in the same answer, but at least you'll have given it the consideration it deserves and let them know, as dear friends, that you're not taking it lightly.

    On the flip side, someone you MAY want to consider discussing it with is your daughter.

    -R
R,

Great suggestions.


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