OK...to start off, I could use some advice  

rm_James20910 52M
182 posts
12/11/2005 11:16 am

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OK...to start off, I could use some advice

Here I am, a single, relatively fit and successful guy trying Friend Finder. I have some experience in the bedroom and I like and respect women. To tell the truth, the past year has sucked romantically and I'd like to turn that around.

So I guess the first question is, how does somebody use Friend Finder successfully? I guess you have to define what success is? I'd like to find a number of women that I like to hang out with. Eventually, I'd like to settle down with one that captures my heart and brains.

lisa121958 61F

12/11/2005 12:38 pm

be honest ...extreemly honest and keep trying,,

rockwriter58 56M
1389 posts
12/13/2005 7:31 am

I have to agree with that sentiment. Determination is key right behind sincerity. But I'm convinced you have to devote a lot of time to this and be prepared for rejection.

Along the way, if you are interested in a humorous take on newbie beginnings here, try these posts: The Early Stages of Man on AFF (Redux) and The Middle Stages of Man on AFF.

Good luck!


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