A word on toys.  

rm_Jace633 47M
7 posts
1/27/2006 8:12 am

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A word on toys.


In trying to keep the sexual drive going and further our exploits, I have ventured into the realm of sex toys. These can be fun and very alluring to most couples. And while the benefits are very beneficial, i.e. faster stimulation, prolonged activity and yes as some may claim a "higher" orgasm. There are also some draw backs and these can be dangerous as I have recently found out. My partner came home with some literature from a sex party that she had just attended and was quite excited at the many options and different types of things such as oral aids and games and even devices such as harnesses and inflatable balls and swings. After discussing the many items and explaining them she explained how there are oral taste stimulants and how she tested them and also viginal stimulants that she tested also. (she stated they did seem to awaken sensitivity down there) As you can imagine all the talk and suggestions led to urge for sex. I was only happy to comply. After some very enjoyable oral sex she was ready to move on to toy play. O.K. - this is good, or so I thought. Once we began to play she was fully relaxed and managed to actually hit the "o" two or three times so she said. This is going great- I'm thinking and we reposition and persue more fondling and carressing. (boom) At this point she is happy-dappy and since her energy is now released she becomes "tired" - classic male you would think. Wanting to take the higher ground I mentioned that she should get some rest if she did not want to continue. Completely ignoring the fact I still had my pants on and a bulge that would make a pertified tree seem like a gummy worm, she proceeds to roll over and go to sleep. So there I am left hormones raging, had no oral, manual, and certianly no sexual contact, wondering did I do the right thing by getting the toys or have I placed my self in a catch22? These things are fun, but be careful. My next fear is that she may venture further into self gratification or may involve other g/f and before I know it I will be staring down the barrel of woman looking everywhere else but at me. Keep in mind, I am no slouch when it come to love making and enjoy long-lasting sex and oral and fingerplay.

Wondering if I should get a vault for the toys and retain the key myself!

hotdarter 47F
1520 posts
6/26/2006 8:20 pm

Too funny! So what was the decision on the key?


rm_Jace633 47M
7 posts
6/27/2006 1:23 pm

Well as it is we are still venturing into the vault occassionally. Whenever our busy lives allows us. It is fun I have tried to cope with the fact that I may not be as trusty as a battery powered vibe or as cold as a chilled glass wand, but I at least work in co-existence for the main goal. So as it is with everything else "if she's happy - everyones happy"


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