Can you believe this guy?????  

rm_JUSTsex4me 36F
157 posts
6/19/2005 10:14 pm

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Can you believe this guy?????


This is an article I came across while browsing through the magazine courtesy of lightbulb1956 lightbulb1956 :

No sex, just talk. . . . is that possible here?
I rarely log on the net but when i do, i log on this site trying
to look for new aquaintances that may help me spice up my
life a bit. but all i can read or view are desperate peaple
trying to look for sex partners, and those flaunting what
they are endowed with (most are exagerated anyway).

i just recently broke up a 20 year relationship and im looking
for someone i can talk to . . . about life. . . about the world
we live in. . . about anything that can satisfy the mind not
the cravings of the flesh or the animalistic desires. i
have yet to see or read profiles that craves for intellectual
satisfaction rather than sex. . . sigh


Now, I did post a comment for him. However, I feel like I need to vent to those of you that understand that we all joined a SEX AND SWINGER WEBSITE with intentions on meeting people for sex.

but all i can read or view are desperate peaple trying to look for sex partners

WOW!!! What nerve! This from a person who cannot even find someone to talk to him. I do not see how we are on this website out of desperation, we're merely here seeking satisfaction.

im looking for someone i can talk to . . . about life. . . about the world we live in. . . about anything that can satisfy the mind not
the cravings of the flesh or the animalistic desires. i have yet to see or read profiles that craves for intellectual satisfaction rather than sex.


Well, I'm looking for an animal in the sack. I get enough intellectual stimulation from school.

My advice is, for anyone who shares the same opinions as this person, to delete your profile from this site and go elsewhere instead of putting those of down for looking for sex....on a sex and swinger site of all places. What the hell is wrong with you people LOL.

nightstogether 56M

6/19/2005 11:51 pm

Yes but. Some people do come here just for conversation, even when it is about sex. They don't necessarily have the same chance of meeting others in Real Life as we do, or have committments which prevent them. The Internet is an open world, and if that's what he wants, where's the problem? He obviously isn't what you are looking for, so move on!

nightstogether
private-intellectual (.de)


707biCouple 32M/32F

6/19/2005 11:51 pm

I've seen the same thing on women's profiles here before. Drives me up the wall. I don't understand how you can miss the fact that the rest of us are here for sex, and we aren't going to change for you (the "universal you."). And then, THEN they get the nerve to act outrageously offended when someone makes a pass, or, heavens forbid, treat them like a sex object. Well, uh, duh?! Anywho, just trying to convey, in my own meandering way, that I understand and agree with your viewpoint. People who want good, wholesome relationships, go to tickle, match or lavalife. People who want one-nighters that may turn into multiple nighters, come here. The End.


papyrina 51F
21133 posts
6/20/2005 3:35 am

theres a little for everyone here,if your mind isn't stimulated how can the sex be that good,it all starts in the mind,a pic of a dick shot isn't go to make many women jump a guy but a good conversation and some kind words might,

Dont judge so harshly,everyone here is here for a reason,whether its company on a lonely night just to chat or make your way aroung the site having sex with all,


I'm a

and
i'm here to stay


rm_jayR63 59F
1884 posts
6/20/2005 4:43 am

Well said, Papy. The boldface type of the site name includes the words friend finder. If I were to meet someone here for sex, that would be a bonus but I honestly don't expect that to happen.
Whoever wrote that hasn't looked around here too much.


rm_JUSTsex4me 36F
185 posts
6/20/2005 10:07 am

I totally see what all of you are saying. However, I only passed judgement when he referred to those of us here actually looking for sex as desperate.

Jay: yes, it does say friend finder but it also informs you that it is the worlds largest sex and swingers website. And if he didnt see that they he must have noticed the sexual homepage that he had to get on to even sign up to be a member here. and yes, jay you actually can meet people on here for sex, because I have. Does that make me a bad person? Because I WAS the one looking to fulfill animalistic desires? I dont think so.

707: I couldnt agree with you more.

Regardless of whether some of you agree or disagree, the fact remains that this is a sex site. Your main purpose of joining this site should have been for sex. Now if friendships come out of your experience here then thats all fine and well. However, no one should complain or insult members on this website when they only see a profile that says "I NEED SEX" instead of "HELP ME ENLIGHTEN AND ENRICH MY PROSPECTIVE OF THE WORLD AROUND ME".


rm_jacexprime2 39M
67 posts
8/3/2005 4:32 am

I think someone should suggest to him that he try FRIENDFINDER.com, and not this site. *laugh* That would probably be more up his alley.


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